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March 26th, 2013, 04:06 PM
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Hi all.
I recently had a loss after ttc for four years. It was our first positive test after all that time.
The good news to come of it is that now we know I can get pregnant. We are trying to find the silver lining in the clouds right now.
We are definitely going to try again, and my dr has said after 6 weeks, we can get to it with meds again.
I am trying to dwell on the positive and not the negative right now.

Would you mind if I hung around here even though I'm not trying for a few more weeks please?
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March 26th, 2013, 04:19 PM
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Your more than welcome, stick around it's a wonderful group of gals. I wish you the best of luck
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March 26th, 2013, 07:22 PM
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You are very welcome here! Thank you for your upbeat, shimmering spirit!
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March 26th, 2013, 07:37 PM
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Welcome to the group and all the best when you do start to TTC
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March 26th, 2013, 09:22 PM
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Definitely stick around! I am so sorry for your loss. Good luck TTC when the time comes!
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March 26th, 2013, 09:51 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss! We're glad to have someone else hang out with all of us! Hope your TTC journey is short this time when you do start trying!
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March 27th, 2013, 09:04 AM
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Sorry to hear of your loss. It's good to know you are capable of getting pregnant though! Good luck to you!
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March 27th, 2013, 11:51 AM
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Thank you for the warm welcome everyone

I had my d&c yesterday. My dr said to take this week off from work, and to rest in bed today. I think it was mostly because I was crying so hard in his office, he said that emotionally I needed a few days off.

So now I'm resting in bed for the day. Bored. Bummed.

We are waiting for six weeks to see if there's any chance of me having a natural cycle. I'm going to start temping, probly next week, to see what's going on with me. It's funny. I have reached for my thermometer so many times, when I didn't need it, over the last two months out of habit... but now I can't find the stupid thing. Figures. I'm not having the best luck lately!
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March 27th, 2013, 12:51 PM
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I've also been sort of hanging out here, even though we won't be able to ttc for a few months. That is, if I even decide to ttc at all. I am still so confused about everything. I think, once I have my Dr's appointment on April 8th, things will hopefully be clearer for me.

So glad that you'll be hanging out here as well
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March 27th, 2013, 12:54 PM
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I think the same group of wonderful ladies keeps following eachother around from TTCAL to Grief board. We should just start our own group
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March 28th, 2013, 05:00 AM
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I think the same group of wonderful ladies keeps following eachother around from TTCAL to Grief board. We should just start our own group
I agree It's comforting to see all the same ladies on both boards. At first I felt very foreign here, but now I feel like we are all friends. Even if it had to be due to sad circumstances, but at least we all have each other!!!
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March 28th, 2013, 10:17 PM
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.....welcome....**** but seems I have nothing to say but that.....sorry
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March 29th, 2013, 04:22 AM
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I think the same group of wonderful ladies keeps following eachother around from TTCAL to Grief board. We should just start our own group
So sorry for your loss...... i have found this site so helpful and im glad i found it...

Good luck in TTC and the best of luck to you in the future xoxo
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