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I thought I was doing a lot better with dealing with my mc but then something will come along and knock me back again.
A relative gave me a present today - a tiny knitted baby jacket that has been in the family for a while. She promised that it wasn't a "hint" for me and that she wanted me to have this family heirloom for when the time comes but it broke my heart. I should have a baby right now to put in that jacket but instead I tucked it away in my box of baby things along with my first and last ultrasound and the little pair of booties that a friend knitted for me when she found out I was pregnant.
Luckily I didn't cry in front of her but I just feel so sad and empty inside. She didn't know about the mc - almost no one did so of course she wouldn't have known how it would make me feel but it still hurts so much even after all these months.
1 partial molar pregnancy and 2 ectopics. Read my story here.
I'm so sorry, I can imagine how tough that must have been It's a lot harder when most people don't know about a m/c. She obviously meant well and it was a sweet gesture, but what you've been through, hard regardless!