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April 19th, 2013, 11:44 AM
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Anyone else just kind of BLAH about TTC? Technically, the OB said we could start now that I'm in my second cycle. But I just don't care right now. Migraines, bad nights, DH having health issues, and still alot of emotional strain from our loss is making TTC just not all that appealing. I'm still afraid of going through it all over again too.

I'm not even bothering with charting, temping or anything. Just not into it.

Am I lame?
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April 19th, 2013, 12:07 PM
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I am so sorry you are feeling this way right now! I think we all go through phases. Some times I feel really nervous or scared and sometimes I feel like I just can't wait to be back to TTC. It is such an emotional roller coaster and its so hard to think of going through another loss. Feeling blah about it all is very reasonable.

you are not lame! Just human Hang in there!!!
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April 19th, 2013, 01:36 PM
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Definitely not lame, and not alone. I was really excited to TTC this cycle until CD3 and then I just had a wash of "I don't care" fall over me. Marsi was battling major diaper rash and teething and being the crankiest she has ever been so that could be my issue right now. I am on CD7 now and with the SMEP I have to start BDing every other day starting tomorrow and I jut don't know if I am up for it yet. I know that I want to TTC, but thinking of charting and going through all of it again isn't appealing at all.
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April 19th, 2013, 03:13 PM
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Aww your not lame at all! Sometimes taking a more relaxed approach without all the stressing and worrying does wonders when ttc. Taking breaks help to. I'm not telling you what to do, just saying this is something that actually does help. DH and I only tried once back in January and it was enough to scare me into wanting to wait until April to ttc. Try not to worry I hope your weekend brings you lots of smiles and happiness.
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April 19th, 2013, 04:42 PM
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Thanks ladies! It's hard to NOT want to TTC, with so little time left in or reproductive lives, but right now, I just want to go to bed and sleep. I fell asleep on the couch this afternoon after work and when I woke up 30 min later I didn't even know what decade it was. I haven't slept that deeply in over 4 months. I think all I need right now is a few days of good rest and sleep so I can get my head on straight and have the energy to do chores and get my house in order. Then I can think about TTC.
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April 20th, 2013, 10:32 AM
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You are not even close to lame! We all go through it at some point. I try to just go with how I'm feeling about it all. If it's too much stress, I back off and wait till I feel more ready.
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April 22nd, 2013, 06:06 AM
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Not lame, I think we all feel the same sometimes lol I know I do....I feel like when it's time to TTC because I'm o'ing I feel the way you do but then when it's time to start testing for a BFP I get all excited and wish I would have TTC harder LOL Mixed emotions about it all, even though I KNOW I want another baby!
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