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August 1st, 2013, 05:54 PM
Rainbow Catcher's Avatar Bound and Determined
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So I'm not seeing even a faint line anymore.... and I'm thinking maybe it was chemical.... I mean I was super sick, and I understand... but it's kind of hard to hold on to much hope. I know I'm kind of early... but tomorrow is 12DPO... and I'm starting to think it was maybe a chemical pregnancy. I'll keep POASing... but it's pretty disappointing. I'm thinking chemical because of all those signs, and the faint line a couple days ago...etc... UGH!!!!!!!!
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August 1st, 2013, 06:16 PM
Rainbow Catcher's Avatar Bound and Determined
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ps If this is AF coming, she's going to be a bear.. and I'd rather know, because the cramps will be unbearable I think, with all of these symptoms.
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August 1st, 2013, 06:26 PM
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I'm really sorry. I understand how you feel- wanting to keep up hope, but having all the signs to the contrary. And you never know if you got a fluke test, or some other weird thing that happened to it. Another woman on the recurrent loss boards said by dipping a EPT in liquid with a dissolved prenatal vitamin in it, she got a +!

Whatever happens, I hope you can treat yourself gently in the next few days.
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August 2nd, 2013, 04:47 AM
Mega Super Mommy
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I'm sorry this whole process really sucks.
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August 2nd, 2013, 04:50 AM
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So sorry to hear that! FX for you..
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August 2nd, 2013, 04:56 AM
Rainbow Catcher's Avatar Bound and Determined
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Thanks guys. Here's this morning's photo.... another BFN. I never know when my period is coming... so that sucks to never know when I'm "late." If I were "normal" with a 28 day cycle, today would be the day... but I vary quite a bit. Oh, and TGIF!!

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August 2nd, 2013, 05:07 AM
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I'm the same way!! NEVER know AF is going to show but it's always much sooner than later! Last cycle was 23 days and normally 24-26 days. Once in the past few years it's been 27 days and that was the cycle after my miscarriage so I just consider that "getting back into the swing of things".
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August 2nd, 2013, 05:32 AM
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Hey chin up! Its better to have af signs and have it show up late, than to have absolute no Af signs and not be pregnant!
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