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November 26th, 2013, 06:54 AM
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After 2 weeks of waiting, knowing our little baby had no heartbeat, the baby finally passed yesterday morning. Although I did wind up at the doctor's office later in the morning for severe bleeding and had to take medication to stop it, there was something to be said for the peacefulness of having the baby at home, on my own, non-surgically. We were able to keep the baby (still encased in its little sac, you can't see it) and will place it in a beautiful planter and get a nice plant to grow as a reminder of our little baby. Feeling very tired and a little sad today, but I'm glad it's over and am looking forward to healing and trying again.
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November 26th, 2013, 07:15 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. I am glad though that you were able to deal with it naturally and hopefully you can heal quicker without the invasive d&c. Please take it easy. I am thinking of you and praying for you.
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November 26th, 2013, 07:18 AM
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I'm so sorry.
I'm glad things ended peacefully and that you can move on and heal now. Please take good care of yourself.
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November 26th, 2013, 08:59 AM
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Heidi! I'm glad the loss happened for you at home and you can now grieve and heal.
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November 26th, 2013, 11:09 AM
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November 26th, 2013, 11:30 AM
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So sorry for your loss! Glad you got to do it at home!
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November 26th, 2013, 12:22 PM
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I am so incredibly sorry for your loss.

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November 26th, 2013, 01:48 PM
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I am so sorry Take all the time you need to grieve and heal. We are here for you anytime.
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November 26th, 2013, 06:08 PM
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Hugs

We also opted for home and I'm so so so thankful that we did.

There was definitely something healing about it. We had her cremated.

Praying for peace for you <3
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November 26th, 2013, 06:17 PM
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So sorry for your loss. Hope you heal very quickly!
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November 26th, 2013, 06:24 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss!!! HUGS!
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