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November 26th, 2013, 11:36 AM
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How are you feeling? Emotionally/Physically:
Where are you in your TTC Journey? TTC/WTTC/NTNP:
What are you the most frustrated about right now? Let it out!
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November 26th, 2013, 12:21 PM
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How are you feeling? Emotionally/Physically: I feel great physically. Emotionally, I'm a mess. But then, I usually am.
Where are you in your TTC Journey? TTC/WTTC/NTNP: We are TTC. I am in the TWW.
What are you the most frustrated about right now? Let it out! I want to spend more time with DH. I wish he would make spending time together more of a priority. I'm making us dinner tonight, and I'm hoping we can spend a little quality time together.
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November 26th, 2013, 12:32 PM
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Physically and emotionally, not so hot since I just lost the baby yesterday after 2 weeks of knowing it was going to happen. But, the two weeks were good to help prepare and adjust.

We are WTCC, going to wait a cycle and then consider TTC again *if* I can get some answers about previous issues and get in a good frame of mind about things.

I'm frustrated that I don't know more about my body and why things have gone wrong. We've been incredibly lucky to get through the issues I've had and have healthy kiddos here at home but I feel like I've failed my younger ones (born at 30 weeks and born after placental abruption) and now a miscarriage. Sometimes I think I'm being incredibly stupid trying to have more.
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November 26th, 2013, 01:15 PM
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How are you feeling? Emotionally/Physically: Physically I am doing alright, I just wish I had some more time to work out. Emotionally I have been a bit of a wreck. I have been so stressed (mostly about ttc) that I find it hard to breathe sometimes and my eye is twitching.

Where are you in your TTC Journey? TTC/WTTC/NTNP: We are TTC - waiting to O

What are you the most frustrated about right now? Let it out! I am just so frustrated with everything TTC in general. Why do I have to O so late?? It is infuriating to take an OPK at CD14 and see it completely blank! Also we dont have heat right now and besides it being cold in my house it is messing with my temps which has also been annoying.
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November 26th, 2013, 06:11 PM
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How are you feeling? Emotionally/Physically: Emotionally I'm frustrated. CD13 and no signs of ovulation again. Why is this so hard???

Where are you in your TTC Journey? TTC/WTTC/NTNP: OTTC (obsessively TTC )

What are you the most frustrated about right now? Let it out! I'm SO FRUSTRATED that people who do not deserve to be pregnant are getting pregnant around me. Seriously, people who don't care about or want their babies. People who are terrible selfish parents. I'm at the end of my rope with hearing about their pregnancies/abortions/lack of concern for their growing babies. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH WHY isn't it me??? I'm so upset

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I am just so frustrated with everything TTC in general. Why do I have to O so late?? It is infuriating to take an OPK at CD14 and see it completely blank!
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November 26th, 2013, 06:36 PM
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How are you feeling? Emotionally/Physically:
Where are you in your TTC Journey? TTC/WTTC/NTNP:
What are you the most frustrated about right now? Let it out!


Emotionally I am feeling a depressed and trying to cope with my recent loss and all of my losses. Physically still in pain from my pregnancy loss.

We are WTTC/TTC... we are waiting till I am fully recovered and emotionally ready too. Start getting testing done. TTC! Hoping our fifth baby is our healthy rainbow and we get our rainbow soon.

What are you the most frustrated about right now? Let it out!

I am frustrated with my body. I honestly hate my body right now. I should still be pregnant instead of grieving over another loss. I am also frustrated that I can not even enjoy the holidays because I miss my babies so much. I am frustrated because every one I know is either pregnant or have their rainbow. I am frustrated because I want my rainbow already.
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November 27th, 2013, 01:35 AM
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How are you feeling? Emotionally/Physically: physically: I feel like crud, I have yet another cold and that sucks emotionally: I have been sad a lately, with AF coming back and I know my hormones are crazy I am just upset about the losses. I keep thinking I should be this many weeks or this many weeks.. Instead, not pregnant.

Where are you in your TTC Journey? TTC/WTTC/NTNP: I don't know what we are doing, I saw my hematologist yesterday and since my antiphospholipid test hasn't come back from my PCP (3 weeks after it was drawn) he drew it again. He said even if it was pos we could do heparin or lovenox. I don't know about that though. I don't want to do anything to jeopardize my health anymore, because I have 4 young kids who I would like to watch grow to wonderful adults. I don't know if what we are asking for is just too much?

What are you the most frustrated about right now? Let it out! I am
Mad! Mad at my own fricken body. Why did it work well before and now it is just mess. All around I think my body is failure. I don't know what the heck is wrong with me. I don't want to be sick, I don't want to be worried, I don't want to have fear and anxiety and I don't want anymore m/c's. Darn it!!! Well, that was therapeutic!!
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