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  #1  
December 4th, 2013, 08:55 AM
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I am dealing with the loss of my first pregnancy. We lost our baby on October 12, and it has been the most heartbreaking thing I have ever had to deal with thus far in my 26 years of life. We lost the baby very early, and my body did things naturally, so I suppose there were some underlying blessings involved.

I was also diagnosed with a septate uterus and am facing surgery to correct it in January of 2014. My fertility doc told me this condition is not why I miscarried, it was most likely a gestational issue with the embryo.

I am still facing a whole lot of anxiety issues, fatigue, and just all around in a slump of sorts and I guess its been well over a month now. Does anyone else feel this way? I can't shake it yet, and I'm not sure that I am even ready for that. I pray every day for a rainbow baby. I want to be a Mom so bad it breaks my heart.
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December 4th, 2013, 10:20 AM
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Your going through a lot right now. I know after my first loss, it took quite a few months for my body to feel somewhat normal. The ladies here are a wonderful bunch of ladies. I hope you find the support and guidance you need here. Please let us know if you have any questions. I hope your surgery goes well! How long do you have to wait to try after your surgery?
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December 4th, 2013, 11:35 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. We are here for you. This is a very friendly, supportive board.
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December 4th, 2013, 01:15 PM
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I am so very sorry for your loss. I definitely felt a lot of anxiety and depression after my first loss. Always remember that you are not alone. Take all the time you need to grieve and remember there is no time limit. We are here for you if you ever need to talk or have questions. I hope your surgery goes well please keep us posted.
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December 4th, 2013, 01:21 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope your surgery goes well. Please take good care of yourself, and know we are all here for you!
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December 4th, 2013, 04:45 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss..
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December 4th, 2013, 05:28 PM
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I'm so sorry you're going through this. This board has wonderful ladies who can relate. We're here for you!
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December 4th, 2013, 06:19 PM
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SO sorry for your loss. It IS heartbreaking... and time, for me, has been the only thing to ease the pain some. I'm sorry you're going through this, but we're here for you!
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December 5th, 2013, 10:00 AM
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So sorry for your loss! I hope the surgery is successful.
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December 9th, 2013, 08:48 AM
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thank you all so much! I love that I can connect with other ladies on this board. It does offer comfort.
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December 9th, 2013, 10:27 AM
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thank you all so much! I love that I can connect with other ladies on this board. It does offer comfort.
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December 10th, 2013, 04:38 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss Hugs
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