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February 26th, 2014, 06:03 AM
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How many times do you and DH BD when your not Oing?
How about when you are Oing?
Does he know when your going to O? Or does it put too much pressure on him?
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February 26th, 2014, 06:38 AM
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How many times do you and DH BD when your not Oing? This all depends. If we are TTC we do not BD after O or while pregnant. I had issues with infection during my first pregnancy and have been incredibly scared, even though my doctor does not believe BDing caused it (this is the pregnancy that we lost our son at 19 weeks). If we are not TTC 1-2 times per week.

How about when you are Oing? 3-5 times (depends on his work schedule) before and after O

Does he know when your going to O? Or does it put too much pressure on him? Yes. We do Creighton Model charting so he is part of the charting.
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February 26th, 2014, 08:58 AM
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How many times do you and DH BD when your not Oing? It depends. sex hurts for me.. so it's usually every other day, sometimes every third.

How about when you are Oing? Normally daily, or every other. This cycle has been an exception because I think I have a boo boo up there and it's like having sex with sand paper.

Does he know when your going to O? Or does it put too much pressure on him? *snort* this does not exist in our house. He would do it 3x a day just for good measure if I let him.
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February 26th, 2014, 04:25 PM
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How many times do you and DH BD when your not Oing?
We normally BD at least every other day, hardly ever go more than two unless in the TWW. The last couple cycles have been very little, because of our losses. This cycle though..I'd swear we were 19 again lol. I don't know what's in the water here, but we haven't missed a day this week!

How about when you are Oing?
We've never really made sure to BD on schedule, because we are pretty regular anyway. Sometimes, I'll initiate right before O, if we haven't had sex for a few days.


Does he know when your going to O? Or does it put too much pressure on him?

DH would rather not know. We ran into this problem yesterday! He finds it a distraction I think lol. When he does know, he struts around like a rooster in a hen house afterwards! It's kinda cute though lol.
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February 27th, 2014, 05:36 AM
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How many times do you and DH BD when your not Oing? Usually once or twice a day lol
How about when you are Oing? Every other day or every day
Does he know when your going to O? Or does it put too much pressure on him? I try not to tell him or let the OPK's sit out if I'm using them.. I truly think it does put too much pressure on him/sex in general.
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March 1st, 2014, 08:53 AM
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Twice a day! Woohoo! My DH is the same. It's all fun and games until it serves a purpose lol. He knows O is on it's way this month and we've BD daily. He is fine unless I talk about it lol.
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March 1st, 2014, 10:27 AM
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How many times do you and DH BD when your not Oing?
1-3 times a week... depends on our crazy work schedules.
How about when you are Oing?
I keep it to every other day. If we BD too much it gets painful and not at all enjoyable for me.
Does he know when your going to O? Or does it put too much pressure on him?
Actually when he knows it's "baby making sex" he wants it like day and night. He feels no pressure whatsoever. I, however, get stressed about it!
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March 1st, 2014, 08:24 PM
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How many times do you and DH BD when your not Oing? We BD everyday, mostly once, but sometimes twice, with the exception of 1 or 2 days that we don't out of the month!
How about when you are Oing? We BD at least once a day, but no more than that because I want a good sperm count, so I tell him he has to wait till tomorrow if he wants round 2
Does he know when your going to O? Or does it put too much pressure on him? He's so cute! He asks me if I'm ovulating soon, and I usually am...he's good with that! He gets soo excited when I tell him, yes, in a few days! And I also, leave my opk's out...that gets him more excited!
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March 2nd, 2014, 08:01 AM
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How many times do you and DH BD when your not Oing? Usually every two or three days.
How about when you are Oing? Every day or every other day.
Does he know when your going to O? Or does it put too much pressure on him? He knows. It doesn't bother him. He works pretty well under pressure. He doesn't let it get to him. Me, on the other hand...LOL
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March 2nd, 2014, 07:48 PM
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How many times do you and DH BD when your not Oing?
It depends really at least once everyother day but usually several times a day
How about when you are Oing? Once having a history of ectopics makes me nervous so I dont like to have sex to close to O.
Does he know when your going to O? No lol he says its to much pressure Im not aloud to talk about it until after the deed is done lol
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