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  #41  
May 8th, 2014, 11:51 AM
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AF is here. Stupid witch
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  #42  
May 8th, 2014, 12:51 PM
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I'm so sorry
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  #43  
May 8th, 2014, 01:14 PM
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AF is here. Stupid witch
Boo! Sorry to hear this.
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  #44  
May 8th, 2014, 07:41 PM
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AF is here. Stupid witch
I am so sorry
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  #45  
May 8th, 2014, 08:22 PM
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Mine too. But I'm looking forward to this cycle. Think the doc's gonna start me on Clomid.
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  #46  
May 8th, 2014, 09:02 PM
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I'll be on vacation all next week, my husband assumes that will keep me busy enough to wait until we get home to test. Unfortunately for him, I'm not patient like that lol
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  #47  
May 9th, 2014, 03:18 AM
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I'll be on vacation all next week, my husband assumes that will keep me busy enough to wait until we get home to test. Unfortunately for him, I'm not patient like that lol
I hope you enjoy your vacation. I am sure it will be wonderful, especially if you get a BFP.

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I'll be on vacation all next week, my husband assumes that will keep me busy enough to wait until we get home to test. Unfortunately for him, I'm not patient like that lol
I hope you get a BFP. That would really make for a great vacation!

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Mine too. But I'm looking forward to this cycle. Think the doc's gonna start me on Clomid.
I like your positivity. Good luck!
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  #48  
May 9th, 2014, 11:22 AM
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Sorry Seekingrainbow and Bartlettmomma

Anyone today? I'm at 5dpo and want to test, so I know you all are doing it lol
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  #49  
May 9th, 2014, 06:09 PM
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I am 10 dpo today, but not even thinking about testing.


I wish I had some of Bartlettmomma's positivity, but I have been in a funk lately. I feel like there are so many pregnant women around me and the jealousy is really sinking in. Even my family is expecting me to announce a pregnancy and I can see it in there looks all the time (they do not know about our last loss). Both of my sisters get pregnant so easily while I struggle (and have had 2 losses) and my family looks at me like I should be able to get pregnant just as easily.


My brother's wedding is in 2 weeks and all can think about is that I should be less than 8 weeks away from another baby. There are going to be no less than 8 women within 5 weeks of giving birth at the wedding and I am just cringing at the though of having to look at them all night.


I hate when I get into a funk. I have been really trying to stay positive, but am just loosing the battle lately. I am sure the fact that my good friend is about to give birth at any minute s what is triggering the funk.


Sorry about the ramble. DH doesn't really let me ramble. He tells me that I just need to think positively and our issues have nothing to do with anyone else. He doesn't understand how much pressure I put on myself. I am 35 and had wanted to have a least 4 kids by now. I keep trying to explain to him that I am really struggling with the fact that this dream will probably never happen. I will accept what plan God has for us, but I still need come to terms with the fact that my dream may not come true.


Man, I am a real downer on a Friday night. Sorry!
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  #50  
May 10th, 2014, 06:40 AM
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10dpo and a huge temp drop. What the french toast. Think af is coming early this month.
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  #51  
May 12th, 2014, 12:20 AM
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Af is suppose to come Wed or Thur... I am roughly 11 dpo.. and gonna test this week I took a test on 9 to 10 dpo... squinter faint.... however unsure real or not. I have been hearing that frer has becoming known for lines that are really negative. weird. I hope it's real though. I want a BFP!
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Second M/C loss- 4-5 weeks(Chemical)
Third M/C loss- 9 weeks and 4 days
Fourth M/C loss- 10 weeks

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May 12th, 2014, 07:19 AM
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CD1-on to cycle 7. Probably won't be charting this month. I need a break. I'd rather not know what's going on and just expect af, rather than knowing we BD almost every fertile day and expecting a bfp. The disappointment is getting to me and I think just having our normal relationship back for a while will be good for us. Hope you girls are still hangin in there and we see some BFPS soon!
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  #53  
May 12th, 2014, 10:07 PM
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I charted up until last cycle and then quit! Extremely stressful! It is helpful to get to know your cycle and everything but when af shows... HUGE disappointment. This cycle, I took a break...no charting..no opk testing or anything! It was such a stress relief. Now, the stress is back lol because AF is suppose to come this week and scared of disappointment.. Ugh!

I hope you get your BFP soon We all need BFP'S in here!
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<3 I have suffered 4 early M/C's since 2012. I am missing my 4 angels so much. My love for them all will never fade. <3

First M/C loss- 7/8 weeks
Second M/C loss- 4-5 weeks(Chemical)
Third M/C loss- 9 weeks and 4 days
Fourth M/C loss- 10 weeks

~No one else will never know the strength of my love for you. After all, you're the only one that knows what my heart feels like on the inside~

<3 Praying and Hoping that my partner and I will be blessed with our miracle soon. <3
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  #54  
May 12th, 2014, 11:17 PM
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Gah! I hoped to log in to see a bunch of BFPs! Not this Sorry Girls
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  #55  
May 13th, 2014, 07:19 PM
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af showed up...
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  #56  
May 14th, 2014, 10:04 AM
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Sorry, Ami
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  #57  
May 14th, 2014, 10:05 AM
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I'm bummed but ok, now wouldn't be a great time, we are still trying to get the insurance straightened out. :/
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  #58  
May 14th, 2014, 10:12 AM
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If we all wait until the time is right, none of us would have kids! haha I never feel like we are in a perfect spot to have a baby, but in the end it will all work out.
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  #59  
May 14th, 2014, 12:28 PM
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well right now, our policy isn't even in our names, they are spelled completely wrong, and they did admit that will be an issue if we need to use the insurance.

We haven't seen if or how much DH's pay check will be changing.

Once we see that we will have a better idea if we (I) want to really try again.

I have given it some thought and since we have to pay OOP now for maternity care/delivery I might try to get in with the HB m/w in our area. But it all depends on DH's pay check.

I should O right around our anniversary, so maybe ...
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  #60  
May 15th, 2014, 12:28 AM
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I'm so sorry ladies!! Hoping for your bfp's next cycle!!! sending prayers and baby dust all your way.
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<3 I have suffered 4 early M/C's since 2012. I am missing my 4 angels so much. My love for them all will never fade. <3

First M/C loss- 7/8 weeks
Second M/C loss- 4-5 weeks(Chemical)
Third M/C loss- 9 weeks and 4 days
Fourth M/C loss- 10 weeks

~No one else will never know the strength of my love for you. After all, you're the only one that knows what my heart feels like on the inside~

<3 Praying and Hoping that my partner and I will be blessed with our miracle soon. <3
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