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  #1  
April 29th, 2014, 09:40 AM
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This is first 'official' 2ww. When I got PG with my DD, I had no idea. I went to the doctor to get my pap and more birth control and to question if my tata's were so sore because of going innertubing a couple of weeks before. To be safe, he gave me a test which was my first ever BFP. The second pregnancy, I'd experienced some symptoms, but my body does funky things so my BFP was another total surprise. This third pregnancy (2nd loss) I counted 25 days from the day of my last period. I'm irregular, so I didn't expect anything (plus I didn't know about charting) and amazingly, I had another BFP.

I'm currently 6 dpo and losing my mind. Lol. Anyone else in the middle of their 2ww? Or anyone else testing in May? How long do you wait before you take your first test?
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April 29th, 2014, 09:42 AM
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I am 7 dpo. Going crazy as well!!!!!
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April 29th, 2014, 10:02 AM
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Im starting my 2ww today. I'm kinda freaking out because this is the same time last year I conceived my son who was born still in January. I can't believe I am going to do this all over again.
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April 29th, 2014, 02:09 PM
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I'm pretty sure I'm 1dpo today, waiting for crosshairs to confirm. I don't get that antsy during my tww anymore lol. We're on cycle 6. If af hasn't shown by Mother's Day I'll probably test with a cheapie. That would be the best present ever! Good luck girls!
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April 29th, 2014, 02:28 PM
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It's when I got my positive last year. It's such a great gift. I hope we get our positives this month.
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April 29th, 2014, 02:54 PM
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I hope so too! Are you 1dpo as well?
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April 29th, 2014, 03:00 PM
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I don't really know Lmao! I think my surge was last night according to my opks. But I have eggwhite mucus today so no clue. If not yesterday then today.
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April 29th, 2014, 03:50 PM
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Woohoo! Hope you caught the egg! I have had good and bad news on important days. I know how those memories can make it difficult the next time around. I got a BFP for my second child on Valentine's Day 2008 (After a loss at 6 1/2 weeks in Jan), which was also my first son's 2nd B-day. This Valentine's day I thought I was going to have the same great news, but tested early and got a faint BFP on the 13th and started bleeding the very next day, while we were doing my son's Bday party. TTC can be so hard! Ugh! Whether it's a lucky month or not, I do wish you luck and tons of baby dust. You are so strong to try again and I hope you get your rainbow baby. FXed for Mother's Day BFPs for all of us!
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April 29th, 2014, 04:40 PM
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Me too!!! I got my positive OPKS yesterday, followed by a negative today. So I am also probably 1 dpo. We had good timing this month, but we will have to wait and see. I don't usually think too much about it until I get to 14-15 dpo. I don't test until AF is late, so usually around 17 or 18 dpo. I really am going to try not to get my hopes up because I only used a tiny dose of Femara (1/6 of what I normally take). Next month I will take a full dose. Good luck ladies!
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April 29th, 2014, 04:50 PM
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I wish I had your patience! I can never wait, especially since I started charting lol. That's awesome we all Oed about the same time.
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April 29th, 2014, 05:01 PM
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I almost tested today!!! LMAO!! I know its not possible but I almost opened that cheapie and tested. #ihaveaproblem LOL
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April 29th, 2014, 05:16 PM
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Now I don't feel so bad lol. I thought about it too! I even tested after af lol! Ttc makes us crazy!
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April 29th, 2014, 05:43 PM
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I almost tested today!!! LMAO!! I know its not possible but I almost opened that cheapie and tested. #ihaveaproblem LOL



@Greenmomma- It really has nothing to do with patients. It took two years to get our first BFP. BFNs are just too painful to see for me, so I don't test until I am pretty sure it will be positive. It really helps save money on HPTs! LOL!
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April 29th, 2014, 06:13 PM
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You all are going to get your bfp's and I'm going to be in here by myself waiting to ovulate! I won't ovulate until late next week lol I usually test at 10dpo, so about 5/17-18 I'll be testing. It would be nice if the miscarriage had reset my cycle to 28 days, but I nope.

Good luck, Ladies!! I'll be stalking all of you now haha
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April 29th, 2014, 06:16 PM
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That will still put us all due in January!! I am convinced January has to be our rainbow month!! I lost my sweet lucas in January and I need something good to happen for his first birthday <3
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April 30th, 2014, 06:13 AM
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Okay my OPK was definitely negative this morning. So I am going to say I'm 2dpo. I have to wait till at least 8dpo to test.




Ugh.
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April 30th, 2014, 07:44 AM
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I don't think I Oed. Ugh. Look at my chart. I need opinions lol. FF gives me crosshairs for cd15 regardless of what fake temp I use for tomorrow unless I put in a really low temp. But I have major doubts. Ewcm today and HSO. And my temps are soooo not normal for me.
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April 30th, 2014, 07:58 AM
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I'm not any good with charts but your temp raises when you O right? Looks like it rose high enough?
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April 30th, 2014, 08:03 AM
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The rise was a good sign of O. My chart is just so different from my normal patterns. Im usually up around 98.2-98.4 or so by now. Today was 97.66. That along with cm and cp, I'm totally confused. Im happy that FF is giving me crosshairs tomorrow. I just don't think I believe it lol.
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April 30th, 2014, 11:13 AM
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Whatever happened this cycle to make your chart look weird, may just be what your body needed to get that bfp.

For what it's worth, I don't temp, or check my cervix, but I do go off of opk's and cm on the toilet paper. I usually get the positive opk the day the cm dries up...so keep doin' it until the cm is totally done, you just never know.
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