do U Believe?

#1 March 8th, 2007, 11:25 AM

I am livid right now i just got a call from my aunt saying how dare i use meds to concieve a child..... that if God wanted me to have more he would have gave them to me quickly...... so she believes that if God wants you to have children he iwll give them to you with out medical assistnace otherwise God doesnt want you to have any.....?!?!?! I mean I believe in God and I am a Chrisitan but i think this is just too far out there for me to even believe that it came from her mouth!

greenchild · #2 March 8th, 2007, 11:32 AM

She wouldn't by chance be related to my aunt, would she?

Drives me crazy. Her oldest daughter has not been able to conceive for the last 10 years, and I guess it was a huge deal for my aunt and their church! that they tried medical procedures. Unfortunately nothing worked, but they were able to adopt last summer.
They haven't said anything to us yet, but they'll def. get an earful from me & DH if they do!

My thoughts, for what they're worth: you would think that if God was so against using the meds, the people who created the meds (bless them!) would have been struck down long ago . . .

Did you get my package yet? Hope you liked it!

Hannahsmommie · #3 March 8th, 2007, 03:52 PM

That's insane! Does god want the monsters who kill their children to have kids??? Or how about people who don't deserve kids and pop them out like pills? Probably not!

That was an ignorant comment!

#4 March 8th, 2007, 04:01 PM

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That's insane! Does god want the monsters who kill their children to have kids??? Or how about people who don't deserve kids and pop them out like pills? Probably not!

That was an ignorant comment!

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that's just crazy! not everyone can have children naturally. some of us just need a little help. that doesn't mean we're any less deserving or weren't meant to have kids (or more kids). ((((HUGS))))

baby4me? · #5 March 8th, 2007, 04:48 PM

URGGG!!! That is completely insane. I can't believe anyone would say that!!!

#6 March 8th, 2007, 06:12 PM

thanks ladies i appreacite the input and yes i got your package greenchild, but didnt know it was you who sent it .... you should be getting a thank you card in the mail soon! HUGS!

greenchild · #7 March 8th, 2007, 07:05 PM

DOH!!! completely spaced off putting my screen name on there - oops!

#8 March 8th, 2007, 08:45 PM

I cant comment too much hun, I dont believe God. I think that you try what you can to have another child, if your supposed to have one your have one ONE way or ANOTHER!