[Mum2three]

Hey ladies, i just wanted to update all u wonderful people. i lost my son on Feb,15,2007 and im still having a hard time dealing with it...but i went to the doctors yesterday to find out why this is happening and get some answers....well this is what he said...

1. in 3 months im able to try again for my Third child!!! he has me on some meds to help me and my body get ready for the pregnancy...

2.The reason for my Sons passing was from surgery. i had gallbladder surgery on Dec,15,2006..and that played a big part in to him leaving..My body was trying to heal and the baby needed things from my body so it was a fight for the life's. and my son's life was taken..but that brought a lot of chosier to me and my family.

3. My body is physically safe to carry another child. there is NO problems with my body..

4. As he puts it there is no problem getting pregnant at all. so he can't wait to see me in his office. My husband was worried that his sperm was not working properly! that was ruled out..my dr said that once i get pregnant, i will have to be stress free and laid back! kinda not do anything. and at 12 weeks i will be going in to have my cervix stitched up just to reasure me and my family that things will be fine..

I broke down in his office and my Dr just grabbed me and hugged me. he feels terrible for what has happened to me especially at a young age! he then told me that i need to settle down and make sure this is what i want. and apparently thats what i want as i keep on trying. he told me then that i have to have FAITH and BELIEVE that i will have my third child. and he will make sure that i get that baby. so im so happy today, that i got really good news!! and yesterday was my husbands 31st birthday and when i came home to tell him he was so happy. and that was the best birthday present in the world..this sistuation has made me so happy that now i can move forward and start thinking about my future! thanks ladies for being such a BIG support when i lost my son!! I hope that anyone that has these problems gets a bit of light shone on to them..i wish u all luck and i will pray every night that things go ur way as well...

[baby4me?]

I am so sorry for your loss but i am glad you got a clean bill of health and will be able to TTC again soon.

good luck

[joanie1981]

I am very sorry for your loss Good Luck in the future w/ TTC, hope you get that BFP real soon!!

[Mum2three]

thanks Ladies. i really hope that this time around works...i have been longing for a baby for quite sometime...and i know that im very blessed as some ppl dont even have 1 child yet...i just hope that prayers and thoughts will work..im keeping FAITH!!! thanks ladies once again...u guys are great in this very difficult moment..