[The Jen]

So today I was sitting in class, and the girl next to me turns to me and says "Oh you are glowing! Must be the pregnancy!!" I just kinda looked at her and said, "No, I don't think so". I didn't have the heart to tell her that I had miscarried. I think I would have lost it right there, as I had trouble all day today. Today was the first day back from Spring Break. I didn't go to class the Monday after my MC, which was the week before break, so many of my classmates don't know what happened yet. I don't know what to say, or how to tell people, I just want to crawl in a hole until I'm pregnant again, to avoid the pregnancy comments people make. There is another girl that is pg, and I felt so jealous of her. I feel like an awful person.

But on a happier note, I got my pregnancy loss awareness bracelet today in the mail after I got home from classes. It couldn't have come at a better time. It sounds weird, but I put it on, and I felt better.

I will be testing this week. I am hoping that I get a BFP!!! I have been feeling some of the same things, but trying not to read into it. Time will tell.

If you made it this far, thanks for reading. I just had a bad day.

[*CAMM*]

I know exactly how you feel! I had tons of people come up to me after my m/c and ask me how I was or ask about the baby. I even had a girl ask me if I had any morning sickness 2 weeks after my d/c...it was awful.
I felt like I should of worn a sign that said MISCARRIED!

Hopefully you get that BFP. Good Luck!

[Brittanie]

Ugh, I KNOW that feeling!! I went back to work a month after delivery, and had SO many people say "Oh, you're back, how's your baby?"


So, needless to say, I got a new job fairly quickly.


I hope all goes well for you sweets! Lots of to you!

[joanie1981]

I am sorry that you had such a bad day It is very hard to hear people say that when you know you lost your baby, I'm not sure I wouldn've told her either, then that look would've came over her or there would be questions and it stinks I'm glad that your bracelet came yesterday That was really nice of DH to get that for you I can see how that would bring some comfort. I hope you get that BFP this cycle!!! You're better then me, I've taken 3 tests already and I'm only 8DPO, I can't help it lol.......Hope you have a better day today!!!

[linbein]

I know what you mean. You just feel like you need to wear some kind of identifier so that people know what happened so you don't have to talk about it!! I was out all last week, and there are still quite a few people here at work that didn't even know I was pregnant. They are like "Were you sick?" I was like "Not really..." "Are you feeling better?" "Hmm....no, not really." I ended up telling a few people, and I'm glad I did, cause they then shared stories with me. And it's just amazing to see how many other women have gone through a miscarriage and you didn't know that they did. It does make you feel better to talk to someone who has gone through it, cause everyone else just doesn't know what to say. One girl who I felt fairly close to, she has a daughter a year older than mine, and is currently TTC as well, she just really didn't know how to talk to me about it I guess...cause she came off very cold about the whole deal. Which really upset me.

{{HUGS}} to you, and I hope you get that BFP soon!! I'm currently still on the waiting band wagon, just had myD&C last week, so not even able to DTD yet much less TTC. But as soon as I get the green light, I'm all over it! hehehe!

[aimeen]

I'm sorry, that must have been hard to hear. We had only told a couple of people I was pregnant before my first miscarriage and nobody before our second, so I didn't have to go through that. I think it is just hard no matter what though.

i'm so sorry. it's so hard to deal with everyones comments after you m/c. i had a client at work and the week after my m/c she asked if i was feeling better because i had missed the week before. i didn't want to go into things and i had never told her i was pregnant so i said i was fine. well then she says, oh your pregnant aren't you? Hayley told me you were pregnant. so i said NO I"M NOT. that should've been the end od it but she kept arguing with me that i was pregnant and i seriously almost lost it. i quit after that. ((((HUGS))))

[BabyBird]

Oh I am sorry you had a bad day. I am dreading going back to work tomorrow. I had my 8 week u/s on Thursday and they couldn't find the baby. I go back next week to know for sure if I have lost it but I am dreading the questions tomorrow. Only a few know but I know I won't be myslef and I don't want anyone asking me if I am ok or I will lose it! I wish we could make a sign that says don't ask!