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April 9th, 2007, 07:06 PM
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Hey Ladies,

I have just had a lost last week....Here's a little re-cap on me:

DH and I have been together almost 8yrs. and finally got married 9-23-2006. We got our BFP 3-18-07. I had some spotting and found out that I was having an ectopic pregnancy 4-3-07. I had to have my right tube removed. I was in shock to be losing our first child and having surgery.

Since this happened last week life has changed.....

DH and I have become closer than ever.
We are trying to buy a home.
And just get our life together, and get ready for God to send us our baby that we do deserve.

I just want to stay positive from here on out....I know it hard to see those BFN's. I've seen about 7 or 8 myself.

I just wish all you wonderful ladies the best of luck in TTC and lets be positive...no worrying....

Give it to GOD!!!
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April 9th, 2007, 08:37 PM
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Hi and Welcome! My name is Nicole and I just m/c 2 weeks ago. I am so sorry for your loss and the loss of your tube. I pray that God continues to comfort you and give you peace. It sounds like He already has.

P.S. We share the same anniversary. We got married 9/23/1995. (my Grandmother's birthday.)
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April 10th, 2007, 01:58 PM
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Thanks...I hope to hear some good advice on this board, and some funny stories.
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April 10th, 2007, 02:04 PM
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Welcome and I'm so sorry for your loss. Everytime AF arrives I get upset, but I always pray and say "I have faith in you and I know you will do what is right for me". I'm trying to remain positive....trying my best!

It is nice to hear that this has brought you and DH closer...I wish I could say the same here. Best of luck to you both on the search for your new home! Looking forward to getting to know you and I hope your stay here (and all of us) is Short & Sweet!
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April 10th, 2007, 02:57 PM
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Welcome! I am pretty new here too. I just had a D&C last Tuesday, the same day as your surgery. I think the wait to TTC again will be the worst. I agree that all this has made DH and I closer as well and we also are buying a new house! Everything will come back together and when the time is right we will have our miracles!
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April 10th, 2007, 03:13 PM
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Welcome to the board! Sorry you find yourself here but we are glad to have you!

My name is Amanda and DH and I married in June 2006. We have had 2 miscarriages since then and have just finished some testing and are ready to TTC again!

Good luck TTC!!
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April 10th, 2007, 03:32 PM
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Hi and Welcome. I am very sorry for your loss. All of the ladies here are wonderful, I hope your stay here is short and sweet and you get your BFP real soon!!!
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April 10th, 2007, 06:28 PM
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Thanks for the warm welcome Ladies...
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April 11th, 2007, 11:57 AM
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hi and first off so sry for ur losses and im glad u found us these ladies are great listenners and they give all the opinnions that u can ask for.

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April 11th, 2007, 01:06 PM
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First of all I wanted to say how very sorry that I am for your loss. I too just suffered a loss. It was 2 weeks ago. This was my fourth m/c. Good luck ttc!
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April 11th, 2007, 01:12 PM
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I'm sooo sorry to hear about your loss, but congrats on the wedding...you look soo beautiful in your siggy pic!!
Good luck on the house hunting!! Hang in there TTC our time will soon be here!
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April 12th, 2007, 05:12 AM
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Hello and welcome. Really sorry about your loss.
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April 12th, 2007, 05:58 AM
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Welcome! I am really sorry about your loss, I am all to familiar with ectopics and tube removal
The whole experience has brought DH & I much closer also.
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