[kanewton1225]

Most of you might have read my story on the December DDC...but if not you can read it on www.totsites.com/tot/babydawsond...but I'm joining this board, because I am wantin to TTC...my hubby is not ready yet but maybe I can get some advice from you ladies. I hope to talk to you all soon. Take care!

[Brittanie]

Deciding to TTC again was one of the scariest decisions I've ever made. Once you get pregnant, yes it's terrifying, but you no longer have any control over it. Before you decide to try, you can decide not to and "spare" yourself. So I understand where you are coming from right now. You're probably feeling all the same sort of doubts and fears I had.

Good luck convincing the husband. For me, my DH was reluctant too. I think he remembered better than me everything I went through during the pregnancy/delivery and how he couldn't really help me, and I think he was afraid of being put in that helpless position all over again.


I think, maybe try to get him to talk about his fears over another pregnancy. I mean, he lost a son too, and I think sometimes people forget that. They always ask how we are doing and forget that he is grieving too.

Anyway, good luck. And feel free to PM me any time.

[Hannahsmommie]

Kaleigh,

I am so, so, so very sorry that you have to be here. I just read your story on the above site...it was beautiful...your son was beautiful. I am truly at a loss for words, I just want to say I'm sorry over and over again. I wish I could offer you some advise about your husband wanting to conceive...maybe some of the other ladies here can. I can only imagine how hard this must be for the both of you.

[baby4me?]

I too am at a loss for words... your son was absolutely gorgeous and I can't imagine what you have gone through. There are many wonderful ladies on this board and I hope we can offer you some support and a place to talk if you need to.

Amanda

[joanie1981]

I am so very sorry for your loss

[aimeen]

I am so sorry for your loss.

[lynie07]

l am so sorry for your loss of your little boy he was so beautiful
l am so lost for words and don't know what to say. to you both.

[SheilaRN]

Kaleigh,

I remember when you lost your sweet baby. It was just a few wks after I lost Annika. I remember reading about your loss and crying so much for you.
I too have finally decided to join the ladies here. I'm so glad you have joined us.
I look forward to seeing you on the board

[tparum]

Im so so very sry for ur loss my heart is breaking for u. ive had 3 late m/cs befor i had my son. but ill never forget everytime they tryed to find the heartbeat and nothing being there. if u ever need to talk please pm me and ill be there.

[jlaperle]

I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you all the best in TTC.

[greenchild]

I am so sorry for your loss!