[maddie02]

The only thing worse than a 2ww is a 7ww....still waiting for AF to show after loss. BAh! I'm just so ready to get started again!!! I'm temping just for the heck of it though. Not allowed to BD for 2 more weeks anyway. I'm glad to say that each day I'm feeling a little better and a little more hopeful. I'm only crying a few times a day now.

[baby4me?]

I am sooo sorry hon. It does completely suck waiting for AF after a loss. The not knowing really sucks. It drove me crazy !! Plus, I felt like it was completely out of my control and I tend to like being in control. You are completely in limbo and just waiting on your body to do what it's supposed to do.

Just know you are not alone. Many of us have gone through this and some of us are still going through it!!


Good Luck and {{{{AF VIBES}}}} coming your way!!

[maddie02]

Thanks so much! sorry I just feel like whining about it. I hate not having control over it, too, and I'm so sick and tired of waiting to hold a precious baby in my arms!!!!!! I'd be satisified just to be preggers, though

[baby4me?]

You are completely allowed to whine!! That's what we are here for! TTC is stressful as it is, and when you have had a loss it really sucks. Especially during the time between your loss and AFt. We all need someone to vent to about our frustrations!!! So feel free to rant, whine, complain any time you want !!

[The Heather]

I say this is the perfect place for whining. I'm right there with you, waiting for AF, don't know when she'll show up. I'll whine along with you.

[aimeen]

I agree that you have a good reason to whine. That is a long time to wait. Just out of curiousity (if it isn't too personal) why can't you bd for so long?

[lynie07]

Thanks so much! sorry I just feel like whining about it. I hate not having control over it, too, and I'm so sick and tired of waiting to hold a precious baby in my arms!!!!!! I'd be satisified just to be preggers, though[/b]

aww sweetie you can whine as much as you want to,thats what we are all here for
is to listen and comfort one another so there's no need to be sorry

[maddie02]

I agree that you have a good reason to whine. That is a long time to wait. Just out of curiousity (if it isn't too personal) why can't you bd for so long?[/b]

Well, the E.R. doc told us to wait 3 weeks before BD again. I guess because we should wait until after my first normal AF until TTC again. Also nothing else in there (tampons, etc.). I have a confession though. We BD'd a week later and again today, but we weren't TTC. My DH didn't "complete the act" if you know what I mean. I wouldn't want to get pregnant again and my body not be ready for it yet. I hate the waiting!!! I want to be pregnant again.

[aimeen]

Oh I misunderstood. I thought the 7 weeks was since your m/c. That's why it seemed like a long time not to be able to bd. I understand waiting for a couple of weeks though.