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I have spent the better portion of my adult life trying not to get pregnant...and now it is so hard to stay pregnant


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April 15th, 2007, 05:18 PM
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This seemingly happened overnight. My early 20's were spent eluding the big sperm-o. FFWD a few years and Poof here I am at 36 struggling to conceive one more child and carry it full term.


We have 3 healthy testosterone crazed-out boys. I know it seems insane, but our family is not complete yet. We m/c'd in Oct. 06 at 5 months. We've been ttc now for what comparatively (pre-m/c) seems like decades. That bio-clock and its tic-tocking rides me daily.

How do I get pregnant and carry a baby full-term at 36 after a devastating loss and age concerns?

Any thoughts?
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April 15th, 2007, 05:27 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. How devastating to loose a baby at 5 months. I wish I had some words of wisdom for you, but I am trying to figure out how to stay pregnant at 29. Just curious, but are you seeing a specialist? Just hoping they can shed some light on the subject.
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April 15th, 2007, 05:49 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. How devastating to loose a baby at 5 months. I wish I had some words of wisdom for you, but I am trying to figure out how to stay pregnant at 29. Just curious, but are you seeing a specialist? Just hoping they can shed some light on the subject.[/b]

Hello. No. Well kinda', I guess. He is a fertility specialist. However, he has been kinda' complacent. His thoughts are that there was a genetic disorder which caused the M/C. So, we aren't high-risk, yet.

Thanks for the insight and the well wishes. I'll keep you guys posted.
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April 15th, 2007, 06:04 PM
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sorry bout your loss hun! i feel the same way you do kind of when i got pregnant wioth ds it was a oops, i was told i counldnt get pregnant.... then fast forawrd 11 years and we tried for almot a year got pregnant m//c and here ist been since dec 2005 and still no bfp yet.... sometimes i wonder if it will ever happen... wish i could give you some more insight ... hugs!

sorry bout your loss hun! i feel the same way you do kind of when i got pregnant wioth ds it was a oops, i was told i counldnt get pregnant.... then fast forawrd 11 years and we tried for almot a year got pregnant m//c and here ist been since dec 2005 and still no bfp yet.... sometimes i wonder if it will ever happen... wish i could give you some more insight ... hugs!
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April 15th, 2007, 06:33 PM
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sorry bout your loss hun! i feel the same way you do kind of when i got pregnant wioth ds it was a oops, i was told i counldnt get pregnant.... then fast forawrd 11 years and we tried for almot a year got pregnant m//c and here ist been since dec 2005 and still no bfp yet.... sometimes i wonder if it will ever happen... wish i could give you some more insight ... hugs!

sorry bout your loss hun! i feel the same way you do kind of when i got pregnant wioth ds it was a oops, i was told i counldnt get pregnant.... then fast forawrd 11 years and we tried for almot a year got pregnant m//c and here ist been since dec 2005 and still no bfp yet.... sometimes i wonder if it will ever happen... wish i could give you some more insight ... hugs![/b]

Thanks for you kind words. Good luck to you, as well.

I feel kinda of sadistic, but I just want to hold another one of our healthy newborns, extend my family, and place another plate on our table. I know that's a lot.

It's nice to share my thoughts. This board was a life saver during my grieving process. So thanks for listening.
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