[dlrich]

I'm a bit confused about where my cycle is currently at. I had a BFP last cycle which turned to a BFN at about 11 DPO. I bled very lightly for 2 days... more than spotting, but much less than my usual AF. If i count that as my AF, then I am now on CD 13. I'm using a fertility monitor and OPK and the monitor has said high fertility for the last two days and tonight my OPK was "even" (test line just about as dark as control line). I have increased CM which is creamy and headed toward EWCM, but not quite there yet. My cervix is way high and soft. So... all that just to say, i'm getting all the signs that I should be ovulating soon, so we went ahead and BD'd. My only concern now is that the bleeding I previousldy had was soooo light it makes me wonder if my uterus is in any condition to be TTC right now. I guess I really shouldn't sweat it....nature will take care of it... I just know now to never test unless AF is obviously late!! Anyone else have experience with a real early loss like this?? How long did it take to get back to "normal"??
Dlrich

[Banned-mskim76]

I'm a bit confused about where my cycle is currently at. I had a BFP last cycle which turned to a BFN at about 11 DPO. I bled very lightly for 2 days... more than spotting, but much less than my usual AF. If i count that as my AF, then I am now on CD 13. I'm using a fertility monitor and OPK and the monitor has said high fertility for the last two days and tonight my OPK was "even" (test line just about as dark as control line). I have increased CM which is creamy and headed toward EWCM, but not quite there yet. My cervix is way high and soft. So... all that just to say, i'm getting all the signs that I should be ovulating soon, so we went ahead and BD'd. My only concern now is that the bleeding I previousldy had was soooo light it makes me wonder if my uterus is in any condition to be TTC right now. I guess I really shouldn't sweat it....nature will take care of it... I just know now to never test unless AF is obviously late!! Anyone else have experience with a real early loss like this?? How long did it take to get back to "normal"??
Dlrich[/b]

HI & SORRY FOR UR LOSS. FOR ME I GOT MY ON DEC 22 AND WAS LOSING JAN 1. I DIDN'T BLEED ALOT NEITHER, JUST FOR 2 DAYS CUZ OF THE SAC LEAVING MY BODY. MY BETA #'S WENT FROM 155 TO 81 TO 4 IN THE MATTER OF 2 WEEKS. ALSO U SHOULD WATCH HAVING SEX CUZ I WAS TOLD IF UR CERVIX IS STILL OPEN FROM THE M/C BACTERIA CAN GET IN.I'M THINKING MAYBE U HAD A CHEMICAL SO IT SHOULDN'T TAKE LONG AT ALL FOR UR BODY 2 GET BACK 2 NORM. IF UR STILL WONDERING MAYBE U SHOULD GET A BETA 2 MAKE SURE.

[ypperin]

My husband and I went through the same thing. Doctor told us it was just fine to try again immediately With regards to the above poster, please keep in mind that the only way to get pregnant is to allow those lil swimmer INTO to cervix. A very early m/c is absolutely no different than AF when it comes to your body's reaction with the cervix and such, and that during AF and ovuation your cervix is open.