[prush02]

Okay... I am having a little tug-o-war inside my head about when I should actively TTC. I should be O'ing tomorrow- ish, but I am just not sure I want to get preggo again yet. Part of me is completely ready and wants to go through the whole mess again, but part of me wants to enjoy the summer and not worry with a pregnancy. Part of me just wants to take a chance and see if it happens, and the other part of me is resistant. Does anyone else go through this emotional tug-o-war!!!

HELP!

I went through it after I miscarried. My dr told me to make sure I was EMOTIONALLY ready before we even think about TTC again. So I would make sure that IF you do get pg again your ready for it to happen again(Pray it doesnt but just to be sure) if your not ready for that or the worrying that it may happen again then I wouldnt TTC just yet hun.

[frogftsh]

I agree with Magan, you should make sure you're 100% ready before moving forward again. Every woman is different, DH and I were ready to start again right away, other women need to wait a bit. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

I agree with them, make sure you are emotionally ready. When I start to doubt myself, I picture POAS and getting a BFN, and seeing how I feel about it. If it upsets me then I know I really want the BFP lol. Sounds stupid, but it helps put me back on track.

[Mum2three]

i agree with all these ladies. wait till ur emotionally stable. u dont want added stress...good luck in whatever decision u make!