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April 29th, 2007, 08:30 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Well, AF should be here in the next day or two. My OB told me Friday that we could have TTC this month even after the m/c because I was so early, but oh well, we weren't BDing for weeks after. I am so excited to be starting another cycle, but all of a sudden I'm getting scared, too. What if it happens again? I'm so scared of the heartache it could bring. I know I have to risk being hurt again in order to have a chance at happiness, but I guess it's normal to be apprehensive. I wasn't going to do HPT's until days after AF is due, but my OB wants to know as soon as I'm pregnant again so he can run some tests on my hormone levels. He said I may need some progesterone to sustain a pregnancy. Anyway, I was just wondering if anyone else is scared, too. All of a sudden an intense fear has kicked in for me today. If I'm scared now, what am I going to feel like when I get pregnant again?
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April 29th, 2007, 08:52 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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 I'm with you hunny!!
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April 29th, 2007, 10:10 AM
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Count me in. I wasn't that scared after my first m/c because I just figured it was a fluke. But when it happened again..  This will be my first cycle trying since my second m/c and I am very scared but excited.
Good luck if you decide to start trying!
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April 29th, 2007, 03:42 PM
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Sorry for your loss, and know how you feel...same here. Good luck when trying again!!
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April 29th, 2007, 04:06 PM
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I am sorry for your loss hun. I felt the same way at first but since its been a yr and half since the m.c I dont feel that way anymore.
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April 29th, 2007, 04:17 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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yes l'm scared too,but we have to think positive
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April 29th, 2007, 08:00 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Yes, I am terrified, but the only thing I know to do is put my trust in the Lord and let Him take care of it. Best of luck when you start TTC and only think happy thoughts! 
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April 29th, 2007, 10:38 PM
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I am there with you. I am seeing my dr tomorrow and we are going to be talking about my anxiety. I want to get PG ASAP but I am so nervous that I will m/c again.
{{{{HUGS}}}} for all of us!
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April 30th, 2007, 02:26 AM
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Yeah, hon, I'm scared to death. My doctor said it would take 6 weeks for my body to get back to normal, and he thought we should wait yet ANOTHER cycle after that! That's a long time! 
I hope you have good luck when you start trying again....it is scary....but the alternative is not trying, so I don't know. Good luck!
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April 30th, 2007, 06:32 AM
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It's totally natural to be scared. It's been a while for me, but I will still worry when I get pregnant again. I think the fear gets a little less, the more time that passes, but for me, I think it will always be there.
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April 30th, 2007, 07:25 AM
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I know that I am going to be scared to death!! I wasn't scared at all when I was pregnant with DD. I mean, yeah, I knew that the first trimester had its risks and everything, but I just wasn't worried. With this last one, I was nervous....I don't know if it was all the reading I was doing on here of all the m/c and everything, but I was really scared. And low and behold, it came true. And now, it's like I keep thinking that it will be hard to sustain a pregnancy, when in reality, I'll have the same odds as anyone else. It'll be really hard not to think about it all the time.
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April 30th, 2007, 10:14 AM
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I had a m/c, had my son, and now we're TTC#2, and I'm scared to death. I was scared during my whole pg, and I'll be the same with this next one-------but he was so worth the worry 
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