Joining. :(

inlove96 · #1 April 30th, 2007, 11:39 AM

Hi girls. Some of you know me some don't.

I just got my BFP on Sunday and Monday and Tuesday last week. (digi on tuesday said pregnant)....then on Friday got all negative tests.

I started cramping real bad on Saturday while sleeping and now am bleeding real heavy.

I am so bummed.

Thank you for letting me be here.

tparum · #2 April 30th, 2007, 11:45 AM

hi hun and welcome over here and again im so sry ur going threw this these ladies are great.

linbein · #3 April 30th, 2007, 11:59 AM

So sorry again for what you are going through. I don't think anything can make you feel better, but know that here you are with others who have gone through the same thing. May your stay here be short!

Shaustin · #4 April 30th, 2007, 12:02 PM

Welcome Tiffany. I'm so sorry you have to join us here. I've been praying for you.

maddie02 · #5 April 30th, 2007, 01:13 PM

So sorry, Tiff...*BIG HUGS* The pain will get better soon. I promise. Then maybe you will feel like trying again. I like this board because I can vent all my sadness and frustration. We are here for you.

inlove96 · #6 April 30th, 2007, 01:53 PM

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So sorry, Tiff...*BIG HUGS* The pain will get better soon. I promise. Then maybe you will feel like trying again. I like this board because I can vent all my sadness and frustration. We are here for you.[/b]

Thanks girls.
I appreciate it. I am sorry you all have gone through this.
I am feeling better now. Just sort of glad it happened earlier rather than later. You know?
I do not wish this on anyone. And I hope we all get our BFP again....

frogftsh · #7 April 30th, 2007, 01:54 PM

Hi Tiffany and welcome. I'm sorry you have to be here, but glad you found us. There is a wonderful support system of fabulous ladies on this board. I hope your stay here is short, and you get your BFP and little sticky bean soon!

inlove96 · #8 April 30th, 2007, 01:58 PM

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Hi Tiffany and welcome. I'm sorry you have to be here, but glad you found us. There is a wonderful support system of fabulous ladies on this board. I hope your stay here is short, and you get your BFP and little sticky bean soon!

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Thanks.

I hope you all get your BFP soon too.
I can't help but feel guilty you know???

zzz · #9 April 30th, 2007, 02:09 PM

I'm very sorry for your loss... the same thing happened to me a couple of weeks ago.
Hopefully you will have a new little one very soon.

Lisa

maddie02 · #10 April 30th, 2007, 02:24 PM

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Hi Tiffany and welcome. I'm sorry you have to be here, but glad you found us. There is a wonderful support system of fabulous ladies on this board. I hope your stay here is short, and you get your BFP and little sticky bean soon!

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Thanks.

I hope you all get your BFP soon too.
I can't help but feel guilty you know???
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Tiff, you should try not to feel guilty. You did nothing wrong. You can do everything by the book and still have a m/c. I felt guilty, too. I'm even going so far as to stop drinking tap water altogether. Only filtered water. And my caffeine and hot baths are out, too. But, there's nothing I can do to stop it from happening again--I can only do my best.

inlove96 · #11 April 30th, 2007, 02:25 PM

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I'm very sorry for your loss... the same thing happened to me a couple of weeks ago.
Hopefully you will have a new little one very soon.

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Thanks. I appreciate it. I to be honest just did not think this would happen. I thought OMG the digi says it so I was good....then obviously it did not.

maddie02 · #12 April 30th, 2007, 02:31 PM

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I'm very sorry for your loss... the same thing happened to me a couple of weeks ago.
Hopefully you will have a new little one very soon.

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Thanks. I appreciate it. I to be honest just did not think this would happen. I thought OMG the digi says it so I was good....then obviously it did not.

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I never imagined it would happen to me, either. Not in a million years. Me and DH are healthy and I've never had any woman's problems! A fertility doctor told my cousin that most women m/c the first time because it is a new experience for their bodies. Most of them just don't realize it because they're not testing everyday like we are. But he also said that your body will try to "correct" the problem the next time around. I don't know if it's true, but it's kind of comforting for me.

aimeen · #13 April 30th, 2007, 02:38 PM

Welcome to the board. I'm sorry for your loss.

Gemini2323 · #14 April 30th, 2007, 02:40 PM

I'm sorry you had to go through this, it will get easier with time!

I hope you get a sticky bean soon!

inlove96 · #15 April 30th, 2007, 02:40 PM

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Welcome to the board. I'm sorry for your loss.[/b]

Thanks girls.

I hope that is true....correcting itself the 2nd time around. I hope this was not due to my endometriosis problem.

baby4me? · #16 April 30th, 2007, 03:18 PM

I am so sorry for you loss. No matter how short of a time, you still feel it. I have had 2 m/c's. One at 4 weeks and one at 5 weeks. I hope you get your BFP soon and you don't stay here long.

Amanda

uncivil · #17 April 30th, 2007, 03:43 PM

Popping over from Oct DDC, just wanted to say I am so sorry for you loss tiffy. Please stop in once in a while and say hi! Take care of yourself. You will get your little bean soon.

inlove96 · #18 April 30th, 2007, 04:08 PM

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Popping over from Oct DDC, just wanted to say I am so sorry for you loss tiffy. Please stop in once in a while and say hi! Take care of yourself. You will get your little bean soon.

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Aww Tiffy. LOL Thanks. I appreciate it.
You girls are too kind.

lynie07 · #19 April 30th, 2007, 04:16 PM

Welcome to the board,and l'm sorry about your loss

proudmommato4 · #20 April 30th, 2007, 06:10 PM

I have followed your story and I wanted to tell you how sorry that I am. It is never easy when you have a loss. It doesn't matter how far you were. Take time to grieve and cry it, helps. I have had 4 m/c's. From 5 weeks to 10 weeks. If you ever feel the need to talk to someone please pmme. Again I am so sorry!