[*Bobbie*]

I was wondering how exactly can you tell if you are Ovulating? Is it possible to O really late in a cycle?

I m/c at 14w. That was a little over 7w ago.

I had AF April 9.

I am CD 25 I have egg white CM and had cramps this morning.

Last month was the same. Egg white about this time.

Before the m/c I Oed between CD10-12. I used OPK's. Should I buy one and use it today, or will it be a waste of money?

I am soooo confused. I feel like my body is still a mess from the m/c. I want to get preggo asap though. I am 32 and Dave is 42. It took us 4 yrs to get one BFP and that didn't end well I can't wait four more years....

I was 15 when I got pregnant with my son. He will be 16 soon. I can't believe how easy it was back then to get a BFP and God knows I didn't need a BFP that early in life.....now when I so badly want that BFP.... it doesn't happen so easy... Life has a funny way of making you think "what the heck"?

[linbein]

I know how you feel. I am currently on CD15. I have been using OPK's and they have all been negative, yet I had a temp shift and now FF is saying I O'd on the 1st. I have no idea what to believe. So, I guess DH and I will just continue to BD until something becomes more clear. Im still have a lot of fertile signs...so who knows.
M/C messes you up! Of course, I have no idea what is normal for me, cause in the past 10 years I have only been off of birth control long enough to get pregnant (took 1 month), have the baby, then the one month to get pregnant again. So, this is the first time I am really trying to get in tune with my body and figure out when I am ovulating and everything.

As to if buying OPK's would be a waste of money for you right now? I don't know. I just don't think I will use them anymore, cause they are driving me crazy. I never saw a positive last month or this month. If I am missing a surge, then my surge must be REALLY short. Either that, or maybe I'm not really ovulating yet either....ugh...so frustrating.

[katiesmom0219]

Do you know if last month when you had the EW and the cramps - how long after did you get AF? My first cycle after the m/c I didn't get any O signs, but my usual ones are the EW and the cramps.

As for buying OPK's that's your decision - maybe see if you can find a dollar store one (so you won't feel like you're wasting your money, if it's only a few dollars). But if you were to ask my opinion, I'd say BD today just incase. Good luck to you!!!

[*Bobbie*]

Last month I had the exact same thing at the exact same time and got AF a couple days later. I am usually a 28 day cycle and am only off by a day every once in a great while. So this is all new to me.

I am just not in the "mood" today. I will have to just do it anyhow....LOL

If Dave doesn't pi$$ me off anymore today. He is on the bad list today. Everything he is doing is getting under my skin. Maybe it is just PMS after all.....

Bobbie