[Ava+Bryce's_Mommy]

1. "It will happen quicker if you relax and stop worrying."

2. "You DO know it takes sex to make a baby, right?"

3. "If you want kids, take mine! Then they can drive you crazy."

4. "I'll lend you my husband -- he just looked at me and I got pregnant."

5. "Aren't you pregnant yet?"

6. "You must be doing it wrong."

7. "You're trying too hard."

8. "Maybe it wasn't meant to be."

9. "You can always adopt."

10. "Did I tell you I'm pregnant?"

[zzz]

Oh, you have to add

"It will happen when the time is right."

I know people are just trying to be nice, but I HATE HATE HATE hearing that!!!


Lisa

[Shaustin]

Yep...I think we've heard them all.

[maddie02]

You should add my dad's comment of "Do I need to give ya'll a book on how to make a baby?"

[Mum2three]

i hear yeah!! i get the same thing..or this one " i sneeze and im pregnant whats wrong with that?" i hate that one!!!

[greenchild]

or how about this one (from my grandma) gee that's too bad you don't have any yet. But how about your sister's kids, aren't they wonderful and I sure hope SHE has more.

Yeah, thanks. Makes me feel a whole lot better.

[MrsPoe]

Just thought I would the couple I didn't see posted.

1. You are still young enough
2. If you lose weight you will get pregnant right away.

And personal favorite

3. So and so...are already working on their 3rd, why are you only working on the first.

Duh, it takes one before you can get to the next!

[BensMom]

UGH! I've heard all of these before!

The latest one (from both my grandmother AND my ob! ) is that we shouldn't wait too long between kids because it's just not right for Ben to grow up w/o a sibling. So if any of you are an only child, I guess somebody, somewhere thinks there must be something "wrong" with you!

I am sick of hearing the loosing weight one. The other one I hate is:

"Maybe its just not meant to be, besides you already have one child"

[Fpena128]

I know how you feel! I recently lost my 6th and now people go from saying stupid things to not saying anything at all. I recently was at a friends house warming party. There was about 12 of us there and one of the couples were telling everyone that they were pg with there 2nd but they didn't tell my husband or myself. Instead they would whisper it to everyone and whenever I walked by they would stop speaking. What am I stupid? When are they going to tell me, when she gives birth?!

[Brittanie]

besides you already have one child[/b]

Like as if having one already makes it automatically not hurt when you're trying to have another???


That one is akin to the "you can always have another" when you lose a baby.

and lots of dust to you ladies!