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May 6th, 2007, 03:29 PM
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I feel great, my HCG was down to almost zero less than a week after my 12W D&C. My post D&C doc appt cleared me completely.

My doc suggested we wait one cycle, but she said herself there is really no medically supported reason.

I don't want to wait. As a matter of fact, last night we BD without protection. I could see if I was still recovering from the m/c, with bleeding and high HCG and stuff. But it seems I am back to normal already so what's the big issue??
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May 6th, 2007, 03:43 PM
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I feel great, my HCG was down to almost zero less than a week after my 12W D&C. My post D&C doc appt cleared me completely.

My doc suggested we wait one cycle, but she said herself there is really no medically supported reason.

I don't want to wait. As a matter of fact, last night we BD without protection. I could see if I was still recovering from the m/c, with bleeding and high HCG and stuff. But it seems I am back to normal already so what's the big issue??[/b]

I had a D&E at 17 weeks... I just finished my first cycle and we went for it. It took about 6 weeks for my AF to return and then I started charting and BDing.... I know it is very tough... We just want to be pregnant again.!! GO FOR IT
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May 6th, 2007, 03:45 PM
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Thanks, and good luck to you!
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May 6th, 2007, 05:23 PM
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Same here hon. Nobody's really been able to give me a reason not to, so we're just gonna go for it, and do "whatever" for now. I finally stopped bleeding this weekend, so I think it'll be a while before AF shows again, and who knows if I'll O, but next cycle, we're definitely going back full throttle!
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May 7th, 2007, 04:55 AM
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I had a D&C on March 15th. One doc told me I didn't have to wait, another said 2 cycles. My MIL works as a L&D nurse, and she said they tell their patients to wait one normal cycle. I did so much research on this while I was in "limbo" as I call it after my surgery. I was trying to find somewhere some information where someone was just giving me permission! I opted to wait one cycle for my own sanity really. Cause I kept telling myself, that if I do get pregnant again, and by some awful chance I had another m/c, I would probably blame it on not waiting or something, and it would just kill me.
AF returned for me after 5 weeks, and this was our week, so we BD'd like crazy, and I'm now in the 2ww. Waiting is the harest part. You wait...sometimes not knowing the fate of your pregnancy, you wait for the surgery, you wait for the bleeding to stop, you wait for AF...I know, it's all torture.
But really, I think it just all comes down to personal choice. A lot of people will tell you that docs say to wait so that you can better date the pregnancy, some try to say that if you don't wait, you stand a higher chance of another m/c, when actually that's just not proven. My doc said that getting pregnant right away stands no better chance of a m/c, you have the same odds as any other pregnancy.

Good luck to you with whatever you decide! Happy baby making!
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May 7th, 2007, 08:45 PM
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I didnt wait at all....my doc recommended to wait 3 cycles, but we didnt....I'm on my 4th cycle after my m/c and no BFP...but good news is, I'm 3 days late as of today!! yay....not gonna get my hopes up just yet though! Good Luck....hang in there.
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