[proudmomof2]

I had my fourth m/c in March at a little over 10 weeks. We have started trying again, and we will even begin clomid this cycle. I am just so scared that I will m/c again. I so despritly want a third baby, and I don't want my fear of a 5th m/c to get in the way of that. But I wonder If I could handle a fifth m/c. Does anyone else feel like this?

[Fpena128]

Hi. I recently lost my 6th and it has gotten to the point where I expect to m/c. As scared as I get I know it will all be worth it the day I finally have a baby. Good luck to you.

[MrsPoe]

First I want to say sorry for your losses. It is a very normal fear, even women who have never experienced one have that fear, but for us it is so much more real. It just shows how much we love our babies before we even make them. It is so much easier to say just think of the good things and the happy ending, but we all know it just doesn't work that way. For those of us with multiple losses, it gets harder and harder to think positive thoughts. For me I keep thinking that all of this pain will help me be a better mom. As far as knowing if you can handle another mc, well we never know what we can handle until we are dealt with it. After losing my baby girl at 27 weeks and I have made it this far, it has made me realize I am much stronger than I ever thought I could be. I worry that another baby will be stillborn and that is something that I don't think I could ever deal with, but I try to think about having a happy, healthy, crying baby at the end of those 9 months. That is what keeps ME going. You are stronger than you may think and our desire to have a baby is what keeps us hanging on. Think happy thoughts!!

[proudmomof2]

I am so sorry for your loss. I don't want to let my fear stand in the way of completing my family. I just now how hard it was for me to deal w/my m/c at 10 weeks. I am trying to think happy thoughts. That is what got me through it. Knowing that I WILL one day hold my healthy happy child in my arms! Thank you for your support.

[kegandryesmom04]

so sorry for your losses, we had our 1st loss in may @ 8wks we are trying again, but that fear is still there but we really want another baby i think the worst part for us is when I told my son (who has been asking us since he could pretty much talk for a baby brother for christmas) we were expecting, then tell him the baby was gone, I know now to wait until everything is ok to tell him again he was really upset

[greenchild]

I am so sorry for all your losses! I hope all of us here never have to go thru another loss! After 2 pg's that didn't quite work out, I feel I am ready to handle another loss if it does come to that, which I hope never happens! DH, I am not so sure. I had to talk him out of getting a vasectomy after the 2nd loss. It really is the positive thoughts and the visualization that one day we WILL be holding our happy, healthy child that keeps me going too.