[proudmomof2]

That I have been trying for almost 11 months. It took me 7 years and 2 losses to finnally get pregnant with my son. My daughter was a great surprise! We wanted to have our children close in age. After 2 more losses and 11 months I am starting to lose hope, that I will one day hold another precious baby! This is seroiusly starting to take a toll on me. Why is it soo hard?

[*Bobbie*]

I hear ya

I got pregnant so easy when I was young. Now I am 32 and it took me 4 yrs to get pregnant just once and I lost the baby at 14w. I have been trying for three cycles now and it just isn't happening I feel like it's going to take years again. I sometimes just want to give up and say enough is enough. The problem for me is my kids now have their hearts set on me having another baby. They were so excited about my pregnancy, and crushed when I lost the baby. They ask every couple of days..."are you pregnant yet?". If I gave up they would be so upset. My kids now know more about ovulation and ovulation tests than any other kid their age! LOL

I just wanted to let you know you aren't alone. I too understand your frustration..... I think it's so hard because it forces us to slow down, take care of ourselves and enjoy pregnancy and our kids so much more than before. If it was easy, it wouldn't be such a miracle to create a life. Even though my pregnancy didn't end well, I am thankful for the weeks I was blessed to carry my baby. I enjoyed every minute of it. Kinda sad huh?


Hugs...

[the scotts]

you'f bfp will come soon!

[lynie07]

aww l know exactly how you feel,its nearly a year since we lost our baby boy
and still had no luck,but we have to stay positive and hope soon that we get our BFP