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July 13th, 2007, 01:06 PM
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I have seen some familiar.... very welcome names around lately

So if you graduated and are still lurking.... please post and update us on how pregnancy is going. We can live vicariously through you girls

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On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss
If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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July 15th, 2007, 08:47 AM
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Hey ladies! i check in on you all very often...please continue to keep hope..i know how discouraging AF can be, month after month but everytime she comes, try to think of her as a fresh start and a new cycle and do what you do best

as for me..im good..in my 3rd trimester..it has gone SO fast...for those of you who dont recognize me..Im danielle and was co-host to this board for over a year. I ttc'd for 19 cycles..had 2 miscarriages and tried several different fertility drugs. What i think finally got me, my BFP was an HSG that my RE requested before dh and i try a cycle of IUI. I had the HSG done on Dec. 18th and on Jan 5th i got my bfp at 11dpo...we were due to start the iui just a week later! Its amazing how things happen.

Remember..keep hope...never stop trying and obviously..if you are the least bit suspicious there is something going on with your tubes..request the hsg

I currently co-host the pregnancy after a loss board..i look forward to seeing you ALL join us when the time is right..after all, thats when is happens!!

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July 15th, 2007, 08:59 AM
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Hey ladies! i check in on you all very often...please continue to keep hope..i know how discouraging AF can be, month after month but everytime she comes, try to think of her as a fresh start and a new cycle and do what you do best

as for me..im good..in my 3rd trimester..it has gone SO fast...for those of you who dont recognize me..Im danielle and was co-host to this board for over a year. I ttc'd for 19 cycles..had 2 miscarriages and tried several different fertility drugs. What i think finally got me, my BFP was an HSG that my RE requested before dh and i try a cycle of IUI. I had the HSG done on Dec. 18th and on Jan 5th i got my bfp at 11dpo...we were due to start the iui just a week later! Its amazing how things happen.

Remember..keep hope...never stop trying and obviously..if you are the least bit suspicious there is something going on with your tubes..request the hsg

I currently co-host the pregnancy after a loss board..i look forward to seeing you ALL join us when the time is right..after all, thats when is happens!!

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hey tysm for the update. and time is just flying by for u isnt it? i cant believe u are allready in ur 3rd tri it just seems like it was yesterday when u told us u got ur bfp. i cant wait tell we read the birthstorie and see pics of ur new earth angel.
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July 16th, 2007, 05:30 AM
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July 16th, 2007, 10:20 AM
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I still keep checking up on you girls. I don't have much to update just yet. I have my first apt TODAY!!! I'm so scared because of how badly our first u/s went last time with the blighted ovum. I'm just so paranoid to see that again! I have had a lot stronger symptoms this time around, so all I can do is hope that it's a good sign! I'll update you all tonight after my apt!
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July 24th, 2007, 12:53 PM
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I still keep checking up on you girls. I don't have much to update just yet. I have my first apt TODAY!!! I'm so scared because of how badly our first u/s went last time with the blighted ovum. I'm just so paranoid to see that again! I have had a lot stronger symptoms this time around, so all I can do is hope that it's a good sign! I'll update you all tonight after my apt![/b]
how was ur apt.? and yw Daniellea.
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July 25th, 2007, 06:54 PM
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Hi ladies...

I was apart of this board for a year. After 3 losses in a span of 9 months last year (1 ectopic and 2 m/c's) we're now expecting our little miracle in a couple of weeks. After 7yrs of infertility and heartache these past few months have been the happiest of our lives. We found out when I was 10wks what caused my m/c's. I went through countless tests, blood tests, biopsies, SHG, etc and we found out that I have a genetic condition. I have a balance Robertsonian Translocation of chromosomes 13-14. It has a 69% m/c rate, a 1% chance of carrying a Trisomy 13 baby to term, and a 30% chance that I'll have a healthy baby. So it's a numbers game for us, and otherwise I'm completely healthy. So we will make a decision in a year or so whether we will TTC again for baby #2 and play the numbers game or have an only child.

But enough of the that stuff. DH & I are just thrilled and pretty much ready to welcome baby. We decided to not find out the gender, so we're having a surprise! I had my 1st baby shower this past weekend, and my 2nd shower will be held once baby arrives. So in the meantime, I'm just taking it easy and loving every minute of pregnant. It's been an awesome pregnancy, with zero symptoms!!! I've had no m/s, no backaches, no real aches or pains, and loads of enerdy. I feel fantastic and it just goes to show you that you can have a healthy pregnancy with no symptoms.

Don't ever loose hope ladies. Miracles can and do happen. I'm living proof that it can happen. You're time will come, and when it does it's the best feeling in the world.
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July 25th, 2007, 07:57 PM
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thanks for asking about us!!!

I had another Ob appt and at almost 16 weeks i finally heard the babys heartbeat! I was on this board since oct 06! i met alot of great women who i consdier good freinds here. It took me 17 months after my miscarraige to get pregnant again, i was evening taking clomid and was almost on my last cycle of that. I had an HSG done the week i was to o and well a few weeks later i was having some IB and 3 days later got my posative test! I'm already in my 2nd trimester and boy the time is flying by so fast!

keep your chins up ladies, i would always feel kinda like a failure when i would read on here how someone else who may not have been trying as long as me would get their bfpo and i always wondered when it was my turn. But be patient because it can happen for you too good luck ladies!
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July 25th, 2007, 08:05 PM
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I am so happy for all of you. Keep updating us as your pregnancies move along. I love reading about all of you.

I can't wait to see all the baby pics!
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step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)


On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss
If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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July 26th, 2007, 05:47 AM
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Just realized I forgot to give my update! Yikes!

The apt went great last week!! We saw the baby, measuring right on at 9 weeks where it was supposed to, little heart beating away at 179bpm. Of course, I'm not out of the first trimester danger zone just yet, but after seeing the baby, I just feel completely confident that everything is going to be okay.
M/S kicked in big time last Thursday. I was feeling so ill I thought I was going to have to go home early, but I toughed it out. I bought some Sea Bands to wear on the really bad days, and so far they have helped. I have been feeling somewhat better the last couple of days, but still not quite 100%. I never got quite this sick with DD. I'm hoping maybe that means this one is a boy!
My next apt is Aug. 13th!! I will be 13 weeks, hopefully we'll be able to hear the heartbeat with the doppler.
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July 26th, 2007, 07:23 PM
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Hi ladies! I wasn't on here very long but ya'll were so wonderful here. I check in from time to time but don't really post because I don't want to offend anyone. I am doing great so far. I have had 3 u/s and everything is growing good and the hb is strong. I am still afraid to completely let go of my fear but I am trying to enjoy this as much as possible. Someone told me that they didn't relax until the day their baby was in their arms. I think that is going to be me. Thanks so much for thinking of us, it means alot. I pray that all of you get your BFP's soon.

bobbie0253 - I noticed that you carried your angel baby for 14 weeks. Was there any problem leading up to that day? Had you already seen the baby and heard the hb? I hope you don't mind me asking but I still think that something could go wrong and just because I am almost 13 weeks doesn't make me safe. Thank you in advance.
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