Trying To Cope

Hannahsmommie · #1 July 24th, 2007, 06:51 PM

Tomorrow, July 25th, is my due date. I'm trying to hang in there, but I know that I am blocking my feelings and I'm going to eventually break down. I thought that I'd be pregnant again by now...no such luck.

To make matters worse, tomorrow is also DH's birthday...so I have to try my hardest to remain positive for him b/c I don't want to ruin his b-day.

Thanks for listening.

fairy9800 · #2 July 24th, 2007, 07:13 PM

I'm sorry to hear that. I really don't know what kind of advise to give but I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers as you go through such a tough day!

*Bobbie* · #3 July 24th, 2007, 07:46 PM

I hope tomorrow isn't too hard on you

I will be thinking about you.

tparum · #4 July 24th, 2007, 08:04 PM

im so sry ur going threw this u will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Ava+Bryce's_Mommy · #5 July 24th, 2007, 08:34 PM

AWWWW....I am praying for you that tomorrow comes and goes with as little pain as possible...I know how it feels my DD was June 22nd...but keep your head up and you WILL get that BFP when you least expect it...it happened to me and it can happen to you too....I am thinking of you!!

dee68 · #6 July 24th, 2007, 10:20 PM

I truly hope you get through the day without too much difficulty. For my angel's dd, we planted rose bushes in our yard.
I just kept feeling like I should be "doing something" that day.....
it will be an emotional day I am sure.....have you thought about maybe doing a balloon release? or planting something?
you would be surprised at how much that may help you get through the day.

I'll be thinking of you..

~hugs~
Dee

Mum2three · #7 July 25th, 2007, 08:40 AM

Im sorry to hear that. Mine was on Monday the 23rd. and it broke me hard!
but thanks to Greenchild, i kept my mind busy. i was doing lots of stuff around my house.
Hugs to u..

MrsRodgers · #8 July 26th, 2007, 08:25 AM

I hope you made it through ok. Mine is coming up on DH's birthday--August 5th. So far I've been ok about it. Probably because I'm focusing on our trying this month and on his birthday as opposed to what we lost. But I know how difficult it is. I had a really hard time a few weeks ago when we knew we'd be trying again this month cause that old witch AF showed up and I had been thinking about where I would have been at this point. But I trust that God has a plan and that he will give us our baby when the time is right. I like to think that my angel baby is with my grandmother and grandfather now in heaven and they are keeping each other company.