we tried for 1 1/2 yrs before our 1st pg, although I think at least 1/2 of that time we didn't bd during my fertile days

, we were just "letting nature take its course". Then after that loss we actively TTC and it took 5 cycles. After that loss, it's been 5 more cycles, but our situation is a different case - I have an HSG scheduled for 8/21 to see if part of my left tube did indeed grow back.