[afwife85]

I'm happy I found this place just to know that there are other women out there too. I had a m/s after 6 weeks (a few days ago) and my whole world just crumbled! It was my first pregnancy and I took it a lot harder than I thought I would. I'm trying to think of it as opening up a brand new opportunity to us. Please wish us luck in ttc as quickly as we can and I wish you all the luck too!!

I want my baby back!

[Em2528]

I'm happy I found this place just to know that there are other women out there too. I had a m/s after 6 weeks (a few days ago) and my whole world just crumbled! It was my first pregnancy and I took it a lot harder than I thought I would. I'm trying to think of it as opening up a brand new opportunity to us. Please wish us luck in ttc as quickly as we can and I wish you all the luck too!!

I want my baby back! [/b]

I felt the exact same way after my m/c...which I also had at 6 weeks along...all i wanted was to have my baby back...that is a normal feeling and although you will never forget your baby, you will in time start feeling better and you will start to cry less and you will be more concentrated on ttc again...its been 3 months since my m/c and im starting to feel at peace, I know God has a plan for all of us and I know that everything happens for a reason so I cant be angry with God because i know he is always here to see me through and he will help us to get pg again. hang in there, i know its easier said than done but your not alone in this and you will be ok...::HUGS::

[karag]

I lost my baby on July 20th at 11 weeks. I had already heard the heartbeat and seen it moving on the sono....
BELIEVE ME when I say I know how you feel. I never understood the pain that someone would go through during
a time of miscarriage but I learned very quickly how hard it is to move on and the pain that you feel every day knowing you
lost a little baby that you had never even known.

I cry every day still. I too want my baby back .... I just wanted to ask the doctor to fix it and make it right...

I am just counting the weeks now that I can start trying again.

My husband and I loved this baby so much already..... We want to complete our family with one more child.



It does get easier with each day.. but I can say I haven't been able to forget and not be sad on a daily basis.
Being out in public is so hard.. but it is almost like you start to build a wall... that it doesn't effect you as badly as it did
the first time you go out and see the pregnant women and babies.

I keep telling myself that the baby is in a far better place than I am today... and one day I will again be with it.


Keep your chin up..... you know you can conceive.. you will again.


kara

[dee68]

I am so sorry for your loss. It is a heartbreaking experience that I wish none of us had to go through.
all I can tell you is , that yes, it will get better with time....for all of us it is different. Give yourself the time to grieve & to heal, physically & emotionally.....you'll have good days & bad.....I know I still do.
I have recently moved to this board after being on the Pregnancy Loss board.....you should really check that one out too.
Just like here, the ladies there are wonderful.......it really helped me alot during my loss.

take care



Dee

[Mum2three]

Every woman feels the same way as you after a loss. Welcome to the board. I know everyday i wake up and just cry, and i want them both back. but time is you best friend, and it will get easier as the days go by. it has taken me 1 year to figure that out. we are all here for you when ever u need a shoulder to cry on.
We all know your pain that u are experiencing. and its not easy. Give yourself time to grieve and heal completely. lean on ur dh for support as well. thats what they are there for. I'm so sorry to hear about your loss..I wish u all the best in the future and i hope you have a BFP soon. Take care hun! Hugs

[*Bobbie*]

Welcome to the board. I am glad you are here, but sorry at the same time. My loss was at 14 weeks and it was in March. I still cry some days and say those exact same words. I want my baby back. It sucks I wish no one ever had to go through this pain.

We are all here for you, so cry and vent away. We all know and understand your pain too well. Lots of love and hugs to you.....

Bobbie

[afwife85]

Thank you so much ladies for the support and lovely words!

I know exactly what you mean about building a wall! I don't want to go anywhere anymore! I saw this lady at barnes and noble already showing and she was looking at baby books and I couldn't help but feeling really angry and jealous, but also happy for her. It just sucks that one day I think I'm getting better but then something sets me off again and I start crying. Thank goodness for dh--so understanding! Thank you all so much!

[tparum]

let me say first off im so very sry about ur loss. and you and ur family are in my thoughts. i do wish u luck in ttc again and u are more then welcomed here please post if u need to talk we dont mind at all thats what we are here for is support in all. so again i wanna say how sry i am for ur loss.

[MrsRodgers]

I'm so sorry for your loss and I have to say that just reading how you feel has brought tears to my eyes. I had my m/c back in December and would have been looking forward to that baby coming on July 27th if it hadn't been for the m/c. Lately I have been crying a lot when I see babies or pregnant women. I get furious when I read the tabloids and see that someone like Nicole Richie is pregnant---sorry for being judgmental but come on--silly to most but very real to the women who have gone through a m/c and know what it is like to want that baby so badly.

You will heal in time and you will still have moments when you cry (like I have been lately!) but you will also see that everything happens for a reason and like my good friend said to me, it just wasn't time for that little soul to come to earth and God will make it happen in his own time. I have to keep believing that. Take care and let yourself grieve, its only been a few days.