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Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss

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August 7th, 2007, 09:19 PM
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How long will you wait to tell others about your pregnancy next time?

Who will you tell and when?

Is there anyone you won't tell at all if possible?
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August 7th, 2007, 11:11 PM
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I think I'm going to wait to tell people 3 or 4 months.
I'll probably tell my mom and bestfriend after I go to dr. to confirm.(so ASAP)
No, there is no one I won't tell.
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August 8th, 2007, 06:10 AM
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I'm going to wait until I'm so big people won't have to even ask if I'm PG!!! Seriously, I feel like no amount of weeks is "safe".
I'll tell DH first obviously and perhaps my mother (she'll go ballistic if I don't tell her and she finds out by looking at me one day.)
I honestly don't know if there is anyone I specifically won't tell. DH's ex-wife of course but she'll find out from my step-daughter anyway.
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August 8th, 2007, 06:23 AM
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How long will you wait to tell others about your pregnancy next time? I will wait until I'm 3 months or so.

Who will you tell and when? I will tell DH right away and probably all of my JM girls but I think that's it

Is there anyone you won't tell at all if possible? No I will tell everyone.
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August 8th, 2007, 07:17 AM
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Hi,
I'm new to this sub forum I'm a regular at TTCMA.Is it ok if I post here too?


How long will you wait to tell others about your pregnancy next time?
I will wait until I'm 4 months or so.I agree with Mommajenny no amount of week is safe.

Who will you tell and when?
Besides DH no one.I'll wait till I start showing and tell my sis.My parents are far away in India.

Is there anyone you won't tell at all if possible?
No I will tell everyone.
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August 8th, 2007, 07:18 AM
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How long will you wait to tell others about your pregnancy next time?

Who will you tell and when?

Is there anyone you won't tell at all if possible?

I will want to tell everyone right away but DH wants to wait until we're at least 2 - 3 months. I'm trying to get him to change to when we see a heartbeat.

Of course I'll tell my mom right away and you guys, but DH doesn't even want to tell his parents right away. All I have to do to tell anyone is tell my grandma, then the entire world will know

No. I'll be so happy I'll want everyone to know!

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August 8th, 2007, 07:23 AM
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I think I would wait 3 months.
I'd tell Mick & my mom first....and all of you gals !
I'd dont think there is anyone I wouldn't tell......but ya never know !
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August 8th, 2007, 07:42 AM
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I think I will want to wait the 3 months to tell.
I will tell DH, and my parents asap. Last time I waited to tell my mom and ended up not getting a chance to.
I don't think there is anyone we wont' tell, but we will wait a little longer to tell work etc.
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August 8th, 2007, 08:20 AM
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I wont wait to tell people. To me it's a gift and even if something does go wrong.. I'd rather enjoy it while I am pregnant!


My husband will be the first to know.. after that my kids.. then I dont really care who knows!


I dont think there is anyone I would intentionally keep it from....
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August 8th, 2007, 10:22 AM
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We'll tell our families right away!!! Life it too precious to hide.

I think I will wait and tell our friends when we are a couple of months. This is only b/c a ver good friend of mine found out she lost her baby at 16w on Fridat and delivered him on Sunday. I want to give her a little time to heal first. And I know if we tell one of our friends it will get back to her and her husband.

Also we will wait to tell DD until we see a heartbeat. She is so little I don't want her to think that all babies in mommies tummy go strait to Heaven. We have had a lot of m/c's in our family and circle of friends in the passed few months.
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