hi all :(

tparum · #1 August 24th, 2007, 03:55 PM

Hey all just wanted to let u all know i possibly wont be on that much some things have came up im in tears at the moment over it. i really cant take it at all its actually killing me inside. but ill check in as the weekend progresses. as of right now i just want to crule up into a ball and cut everyone off. but ill try to check in. in a bit.

*Bobbie* · #2 August 24th, 2007, 03:57 PM

Oh sweetie.... I really hope everything is okay...or will be soon. If you want to talk, please PM me.

Take as long as you need.... we will really miss you, but will all be here when you get back.

Lots of

coming your way.

greenchild · #3 August 24th, 2007, 04:01 PM

hope whatever's going on is taken care of soon. our T & P are with you!

tparum · #4 August 24th, 2007, 04:05 PM

god i wanna scream and yell i dont know what to do. someone told lies to cps today. and it hurts so bad that someone can be that bad.

lillermom99 · #5 August 24th, 2007, 04:07 PM

Oh sweetie I am so sorry that you are going through all of this. I will keep you in my T+P and remember that you can always come here and lean on us for support.

Please let us know what we can do....

*Bobbie* · #6 August 24th, 2007, 04:10 PM

Okay hon.... breathe.

The truth always comes out....just clear your head as much as possible. Clayton is still with you right? CPS will see thru any lies. If you are calm and not freaking out when talking to them, things will clear up much faster.

I am assuming it is someone mad at you for whatever reason? Do you know this person? I can't understand why people do mean things like this? GRRR

If you don't want to talk about it, we understand...but we also want to help our friend

tparum · #7 August 24th, 2007, 04:13 PM

just prayers but the part is we dont do any of that they said we have drugs in my house we dont do that so i cant have clayton in my house until they get the results back. i miss him so bad. the good part they let him go to my moms house and stay with him. but thats not the point we dont do anything at all. im gonna find out who did this and try to do something about it maybe file emotionall ditress i thank it is on them this has been a very emotionall day for me i even got a headach from crying so much and so hard.

we went and took the drug test today as soon as they left i was calm a little bit but not long i feel so bad i wanna find out who would do something like that all i do is stay to ourselfs and get this they even say i leve my baby at the pool unatttended and in the pool.

god how can someone be so cruel.

*Bobbie* · #8 August 24th, 2007, 04:29 PM

Hon... he is with family...and that is most important. I guess if it were me I would try to think of it this way....

You KNOW you don't do drugs....... But there is a child out there somewhere whose parents do and probably deal and ignore their kids and might even forget to feed and change them. Sometimes good people are accused and the proper steps are taken to make sure the child is safe just incase the parents aren't good. The system is working because CPS takes all possible cases of abuse and neglect seriously. You know your little guy is safe and will be returned because you are good (drug free) parents. The child who is neglected will be in a safe place because of your agony and tears allowing the system to work.

I would do your best to stay positive. YOU KNOW he is safe and will be home soon. Keep your chin up even though it feels like the ceiling is falling.

When will they get the results back so he can come home? I am sure he is enjoying the time with your parents and doesn't even know anything is wrong. Be strong for him .....

Lot of

tparum · #9 August 24th, 2007, 04:40 PM

results should be in monday or tuesday and i know i gotta stay positive and thank god that they let my mom take him tell then i just miss him so much and i know hes w/family and thats the good part a really good part i keep thanking in my mind what would have happend if my mom wasnt in town for a few. and it kills me. but its gonna be just fine i know it will and i know what ill be doing in the beg. of next wk thats loveing on my little man as in giveing him all the hugs and kisses he will let me.

thank you all for dealing w/me on this...

*Bobbie* · #10 August 24th, 2007, 04:49 PM

Wow that's a long time. Why do they have to do stuff like this to innocent people on the weekend...GRRRR

Don't think of the what-ifs. You mom is here and was willing to take him, so you are very lucky. He really is too young to understand what is going on. He probably thinks it's fun to be with her. He is safe and happy. Try to find something....anything to do to make the time go by faster. Are you allowed to visit him?

And I am happy to help....that's what friends do...KWIM?

fairy9800 · #11 August 24th, 2007, 05:38 PM

Wow hun. I am sooo sorry you are going through this right now! I don't really know what to say other then they will see how good of a mother you are and your little man will be home soon. YOur in my thoughts and prayers!!!!

Mum2three · #12 August 24th, 2007, 05:43 PM

omg tosha! im so sorry that this is happening to you! my T + P are so with u right now!! at least hes with ur mom! so that hes not to scared, grandma will treat him good and spoil him rotten!! i wish u the best..and i will be thinking about you!!

dee68 · #13 August 24th, 2007, 07:02 PM

Tosha,

I am so sorry you are going through this !! Please take all of the time you need to get this ridiculous issue resolved !!!
you and your family are in my T & P's

I truly hope you get to the bottom of this.
Take care of yourself Hon, & trust that everything will work out fine for all of you.

Dee

reddick2084 · #14 August 24th, 2007, 07:20 PM

Tosha thatnis an awful situation to be in. Whoever did call cps is a cruel person and will get theirs. The truth is definitely going to come out. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Everything is going to get better. TC

cam & sami's mom · #15 August 25th, 2007, 08:29 AM

How horrible for you! I hope the results come back quickly so you can be reunited with your little boy.

tparum · #16 August 25th, 2007, 09:15 AM

ty ladies i appreciate everything. im better today yesterday was just a beg rollercoster for me i still cant get over it but thats ok they will get theres and im gonna find out who said this and just ask them what facts do they have that we do all that? and just ask them y thats all i wanna know and id love to just knock them out but that wont be good on my part. so next wk. ill be trying to find out who and ask those ?s.

ty again ladies u all are awsome and ty for putting up w/me last night. but i did cry the whole night but not today.

greenchild · #17 August 25th, 2007, 09:42 AM

oh hun I am so sorry you are going thru this!!!!! Don't worry, whoever did this to you will what's coming to them one way or another!!!!! I hope Clayton is returned to you ASAP!!!!!