[Sabina]

I am so upset. DH is SO sick. He gave her a good go last night but today he is really sick. I don't think he can BD tonight and I still haven't O. I don't know why but I am becoming upset and frustrated. I want a perfect chart this cycle with four days before and one day after because I really WANT to get pg this cycle. Now I am worried today might be the day and what if I can't BD tonight? I have been BDing every frigging day and I just want to O so bad so I can relax. Sorry I just needed to vent. I am so sick of this! I don't know if I want to break down and cry or scream.

[MelissaT1973]

I'm sorry your so frustrated

Try to relax, although that is easier said than done. Good luck!

[*Bobbie*]

Oh hon.... I am sorry

The good news is I think you will get CH's for the 19th. Try putting in tomorrows temp around where it was today and see if you get them? I understand your frustration. I get tired of just doing it cause we have to. This month I am just going to try and BD every other day.

You did have a +OPK so I say really try to relax now. Give DH the night off and try again tomorrow. Some women have sex once during their fertile days and get pregnant. If it will make you feel better do a search on FF for charts like yours. It usually helps me feel a little better about my chances when I am feeling down.

Lots of

[Sabina]

I know I am being a total freak I just want to make SURE we hit it this month. I didn't want to stop until I got my crosshairs. I see the CD you are talking about and I agree but I am just being a paranoid freak and have gotten myself all worked up over nothing. I don't have a choice, DH is at home sick in bed right now. I couldn't even ask him, he is so pathetic when he is sick. All I can do is pray I got it.