September 6th, 2007, 05:15 PM
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So at work, I have not told anyone that I am late. I still can't believe it myself. Anywhooooo... I am walking down the corridor and I see a lady who I don't see often, but when I do, she is like an angel, full of peace and glowy.... you know the type I am talking about.... lots of peace surrounds her. She is one of my favorite people at work (I should tell her that)....anyway.....
I am getting closer to her and she asks me how I am. I answer a bit tired but okay.
She answers, "Well, everything has stopped (motions with her hand down there) and you are pregnant ... aren't you?"
I answer, "Why would you say that? I just miscarried a couple of months ago."
She answers, " If you have any inkling that you are pregnant, you have to stop what you are doing and rest and relax. You have to take care of yourself. You come first."
At this point I had goose pimples going through me to my head, like in a circle. That tingly feeling lasted for about 4 minutes. and I said, "I have goose pimples here."
She said, " I look at you and I can tell you are pregnant. I am not psychic or anything, I can just tell."
So I said, "I haven't told anyone, but I am late and right now I am tingling all over."
She said, " Not to tell anyone because not everyone is a friend. Some may be jealous and you don't need the bad vibes. You have to relax and don't stress out."
Ladies, only my husband knew I was late, and you of course, but no one else, no one! No one at work even knew that I was TTC. When they would ask, if I was TTC I would answer no, not at the moment, too soon.... I never said I was TTC to anyone.
UPDATE on today.... I am going on to CD 32. I tested this morning and it was a BFN. I am going to stop testing for a couple of days. I counted how long it took me to get the BFP my last pg. It was 21DPO. So there is a bit of time.... I also have to remember I was not doubling well then.
Anyway, I think I am doing pretty well. I am going to start taking it easier. Hoping my friend at the job is right.
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