Yet Another Loss

HangingInThere · #1 September 8th, 2007, 10:07 AM

I can't believe my previous DDC just had yet another loss. I'm sure most of you have seen the posts for Chrisa and her baby boy Jeremey. It is so said. That makes 4 losses in a little over a month. It scares me to get on the boards anymore because it just makes you realize how fragile pg really is and that you are never really out of the woods. I really want another baby but I'm scared to think that I could loose another at any point in the pg. I nievely(sp?) thought that I was safe because I had reached the second trimester but I was wrong. And then to see all the reccent losses of second and even third trimester babies. Wow, am I ever going to feel like I've reached the safe point with a pg, if I get pg again. It just makes my decision for having another so hard. Any one else feeling this way?

dee68 · #2 September 8th, 2007, 10:18 AM

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Wow, am I ever going to feel like I've reached the safe point with a pg, if I get pg again. It just makes my decision for having another so hard. Any one else feeling this way?[/b]

that is so sad......way too many stories like that

, seems like it happens so often...and I want to know WHY !!!!!!

At first I did question whether or not to try again....I was scared......but I would give ANYTHING to have a baby, and KNOW in my heart if I am meant to be blessed it will happen....so I am going to keep ttc.

tparum · #3 September 8th, 2007, 10:30 AM

I was allways so scared of ttc again i thank if i was to lose another one i would honestly go crazy. but i can say this it goes to show us were not promised a minute in life.

HangingInThere · #4 September 9th, 2007, 11:08 AM

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I was allways so scared of ttc again i thank if i was to lose another one i would honestly go crazy. but i can say this it goes to show us were not promised a minute in life.[/b]

Isn't that sooo true! I must say though it hasn't kept me from DTD and TTC another. I told a friend last night that even though we felt we were done having kids that after being pg again and having those dreams for the future, the only way it seems feasible to get past all of this is to go on trying to have another. Our dreams for other things are not that easily diminished so why should the dream of having a child be, planned or not.

*Bobbie* · #5 September 9th, 2007, 02:22 PM

I feel so sad for the ladies who have any type of loss...early or late.

Luckily after I lost mine only one more woman from my DDC had a loss. About half of them have had their babies now.

About future pregnancies.... I think I will worry a little....but I LOVE being pregnant so I will take my chances and just enjoy my future pregnacy ( If I am blessed to have a future one).

I am so thankful for the 14 weeeks I had with my angel. Even if it didn't end well.

HangingInThere · #6 September 10th, 2007, 11:55 AM

I too feel sorry for all those who have lost their babes, but I too love being pg and am glad I had the opportunity to carry my babe for as long as I did. If nothing more it has helped my decision for my future pg.

brandiruss · #7 September 14th, 2007, 11:05 AM

All I can say is "The only guarantee in life is death"...unfortunately, if I am *blessed* with future pregnancies, I WILL NOT feel safe until I am holding my baby in my arms......

Having lost my twins just 6 short weeks ago...I realize NOW that life is so very fragile and unpredictable....it pains me to think about the heartache Chrisa is feeling after losing Jeremy....I can only hope that my boys are keeping him company in Heaven