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September 25th, 2007, 07:55 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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So it has been roughly 39 days and still no AF. My m/c was fairly early so I didn't expect it to take much longer than a normal cycle to return to, well, normal.
I have had terrible cramps and lower back aching periodically now for what seems about 2 weeks. Each morning I wake up and think, today she will come, she has to by the way I am cramping and bloating...nothing.
Ok, so I took another HPT today (I had a BFP Saturday AM). And there was a second faint line, but I swear it was my eyes playing tricks on me. I sat it down and called my daughter in and asked her (without prefacing) what she saw...she said "I see a dark line right there and a light blue line there".
I nearly hit the floor......she skipped away without a second thought as to what my question was.
So I figure if I post saying I saw a faint line, either AF will promptly show up tomorrow morning (as I suspect is more likely....as to when is the question) or I will test again (after I buy more tomorrow) with FMU and see what happens.... I still stand by not thinking I am pg, but without AF and now this crazy faint line thing I am about to lose my mind. Thank goodness my parents are here till Saturday to keep me occupied.
My rant is over. (guilty feeling over here after being MIA a few days then busting in with this novel!) 
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September 25th, 2007, 08:01 PM
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Melissa she is visiting me...so you're good for awhile!!!
Dark line vibes coming your way..... I really hope you get a HUGE MAJOR GIGANTIC COLLOSOL...okay my spelling suck.... BFP!!!!!!!!
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On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss  If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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September 25th, 2007, 08:44 PM
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Melissa,
Hey Buddy, I have to LOL!! Here we thought I was the one with a better chance of being BFP and your the one that got the faint line!! Well I certainly hope it's true because maybe that would help explain why I am having the worst AF I have ever had. I had cramps and heavy bleeding (sorry TMI) all last night and today. And the cramps I the worst ever! Usually I can take tylenol or ibuprofen and they go away. Not today, I spent all afternoon laid up in bed with the heating pad on my stomach and that was the only way I was comfortable. Thankfully they are starting to ease up a little now, but I had to have Dh pick up some naproxen. I even tried a percocet this afternoon and all it did was make me drowsy. It might have cut the pain a little but not alot. I hope tomarrow is better and I hope to see a picture of a deffinate BFP from you soon!! I'm here rooting you on Buddy!! B....  F... P.... for Melissa!
GL hun,
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September 25th, 2007, 09:41 PM
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Melissa !!
here is hoping for a nice dark " yes it's definate" 
Good luck girl !!!!!!  
Dee
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September 25th, 2007, 10:34 PM
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I hope you get a nice dark BFP line and that is why the witch is staying away!
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September 26th, 2007, 06:31 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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You guys are great and so positive!
I am going to go buy a few HPT's today....and although I should be holding onto hope since AF is not here ,I just really don't think it's my month. I truly believe the faint BFP was a fluke. Not to mention that my PMS is pretty screaming and my bb's are not the least bit tendor or sore (everytime I have been pg they are sensitive right away).
I know I sound negative but it's more that I just don't feel this is it, I think it's AF just really get her game on before visiting me....
Will keep you posted after I test, if any of the several I assume I will take have any tale tale signs I will post them for opinion.
Courtney, so sorry about the really bad AF, that is no fun  ....you're a great buddy 
Have a great Wednesday everyone and thank you again for all the vibes!
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September 26th, 2007, 09:38 AM
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I'm hoping it will be a nice dark line for you...post some pics for us so I have something to obsess over!
good luck!!!
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September 26th, 2007, 10:41 AM
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Quote:
I'm hoping it will be a nice dark line for you...post some pics for us so I have something to obsess over!
good luck!!! [/b]
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hee hee ! YEAH ! what she said !!!! 
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September 26th, 2007, 02:37 PM
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Well tomorrow I will test with FMU, my question is.. I could only get to a dollar tree (very close to my work, didn't even know it was there till the other day) so all I have to test with is those $1 tests. Don't know how reliable they really are, especially if your early on...
Cramps and lower back aching still in full swing
Really don't know how I would keep my sanity without all of you on this board 
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September 26th, 2007, 03:00 PM
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Melissa,
at this point I am starting to wonder how reliable any hpt's are !!
you are late, you will use fmu.....so I think you have a good shot at having a reliable result. Hope you bought a few, because you KNOW WE will make you do more if WE don't like the results 
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September 26th, 2007, 03:43 PM
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After last month... I am not a huge fan of $ store or digital......  Both gave me a false positive.
But...what the heck you have it... PEE ON IT! If you the answer isn't clear... just go buy a better one (NOT digital!)
to you!
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On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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September 26th, 2007, 03:55 PM
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I can't wait until tomorrow to obesess over pictures of lines....hee hee.
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September 26th, 2007, 07:13 PM
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Sabina your desire to see hpt's is a little unsettling (that's a joke!!)
I agree, I love to see the hpt's posted for evaluation....except my own (hmmm does that make me hpt test shy?....... Probably not)
Tomorrow is it,....nerves are at a peak...
night!
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September 26th, 2007, 07:46 PM
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September 27th, 2007, 08:34 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Quote:
Sabina your desire to see hpt's is a little unsettling (that's a joke!!)
I agree, I love to see the hpt's posted for evaluation....except my own (hmmm does that make me hpt test shy?....... Probably not)
Tomorrow is it,....nerves are at a peak...
night![/b]
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edit...just saw your other post
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