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September 27th, 2007, 08:49 PM
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How long should I wait after my natural miscarriage to BD again? We won't TTC this cycle but I don't think I'm about to O anyway so it would be safe in that respect. The doctor said to wait one cycle to TTC but she didn't say anything about sex in general.

My m/c was last Wednesday. I have stopped bleeding, but I didn't know if I should wait longer because of a risk of damage or infection?

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September 27th, 2007, 10:11 PM
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I don't think there's really a general timeline as to how long to wait to BD after your m/c. Personally for me, I m/c on a Friday, by Monday it had finished, and 2 weeks later Dwayne and I BD for the first time. It all depends on how you're feeling I guess!!
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September 27th, 2007, 10:15 PM
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I think as long as the bleeding has stopped, it would be ok....but you might want to check that out first.
I waited a long time, only because I bled for so long & then had a raging infection.
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September 28th, 2007, 01:13 PM
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i m/c on a wednesday, stopped bleeding by sunday and and my bf and i had sex on monday. i didn't experience any pain, nor did i get an infection. hope this helps!!
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September 28th, 2007, 03:27 PM
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When I m/c my doc said to wait one week after the bleeding had stopped.
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September 28th, 2007, 03:47 PM
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I had a mc with a d&c and my doc said as long as I was not bleeding we could bd whenever we were ready
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September 28th, 2007, 07:24 PM
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Thanks! I talked to Dh about it and he is a little worried about hurting me, so we may be using alternative activities until he and I both feel comfortable with it again.
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September 28th, 2007, 08:03 PM
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My doctor told me to wait two weeks. Not sure the reasoning.... I guess so you don't risk infection?
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