[Mum2three]

Well we have been DTD the last few days, cause apparently i was on the big "O" for the last week. I started to get these pains in my lower tummy. almost where my ovaries are. and last night we were DTD and when we were finished i thought i was going to get SICK!!! how embarrassing! The pains im not sure of. i have never had them in my entire life. the only way that i can describe them is AF cramps! It doesnt hurt after the Deed, but its annoying. cause i dont know what it is..
Is this due to the big "O"
I need a little help here..lol..

Feed back please!!!!

i feel like a moron for asking this question....lol

Thanks girls!!

[dee68]

Brandy,

wouldnt it be easier if we all came with a manual for all of this stuff???

I am not sure what to tell you....but last cycle when, I know the day after bd'ing while O'ing, I had wicked cramps. And had never had that before....um....I dont mean to get personal, aw heck yeah I do......did you pull a muscle or something??
I am sorry I cant be help to you !!!

[*Bobbie*]

Brandy..... UMMM I really have no idea because honestly I don't know "where" my ovaries are So who is the silly one???


I will just send you some instead!!!!!

You can have all mine for the month. I can't TTC so it's all yours.....

[Mum2three]

i dont think i pulled something..at first i just thought ok its been a while since we dtd. cause yeah we wont go there..lol..we have really busy work habits, and sex is at the end of the list. but now im sitting here going ok, what is this!! they honestly feel like AF cramps. but shes not due till october 11th!! and i really hope she stays away! My best friend came over today, and she said that it may just be from dtd so much, and that after Oing u can get cramps.. so im unsure!! thats why i came to you guys.

[Frangipani]

unfortunately I don't have any good information to add to this but I wanted to say how awesome it is to have a place where you can ask these sorts of questions. My friends are all so weirded out and act shy or something if you ask anything about BDing or anything. It kind of makes me miss my really bawdy friends I had before I moved down here!

[dee68]

unfortunately I don't have any good information to add to this but I wanted to say how awesome it is to have a place where you can ask these sorts of questions. My friends are all so weirded out and act shy or something if you ask anything about BDing or anything. It kind of makes me miss my really bawdy friends I had before I moved down here![/b]

Fran,

Me too !!!!! everyone out here is too reserved ! I miss My South Jersey gals !!! lol

[MelissaT1973]

Hey I am with you gals, I have no real girls I can talk to about my personal TTC stuff...they all live in either Washington State, California, or Oregon...so I am about 3000 miles from them.
About the pains, I would ask a nurse, not necessarily go to the dr but call and explain. There really should not be any "pain" associated with DTD, but sometimes if the uterus is really low it can cause some pain.

[Mum2three]

im glad that i have my JM buddies!! dh looks at me strange sometimes with my questions!!
i pain is mild, but i can feel it. n its more annoying then anything. i thought mabey it was a bladder infection
n started to drink cranberry juice..n nothing!!

I will b calling tomorrow n just asking.

thanks girls

[dee68]

Brandy,

Have you lifted anything really heavy lately??? I remember years ago, decorating the breakroom at work for Christmas, I moved cases of soda that were stacked to make room for the tree....of course all of the guys bolted......
and the next day..OMG...........Pain....it lasted a few days.
Also had a uti a few months ago....and had annoying pain going on...dranks LOTS of water & used Azo tablets & it cleared it right up.

Good luck hon !!