[..Jessica..]

I got home today, and she told me she was bleeding Friday but didn't think anything of it. Saturday she said she passed clots, so she's figuring she miscarried. This is her second miscarriage, and she's really scared that she can't carry a baby. She has an appointment on Tuesday which she's going through with, she's going to mention it to the doctor and see if he can provide her with some information.

I hope there is nothing wrong with her!!! She said if she can't carry a baby she might look into getting a surrogate so her and her fiance can have a child of their own. She said if she can't do that, then they will adobt.

I feel so helpless with her! She was my shoulder when I had my miscarriage, and now she doesn't want to be around anyone. I don't know how to support her if she doesn't want to be near me.

[Frangipani]

aww Jessica I'm so sorry to hear that.

I think your sister may come around; just give her time. I was the same way-I was there for my sister when she m/c'd but I just didn't want to talk about this with anyone other than DH when I was the one m/c'ing. I eventually came around, but it was hard at first!

Good luck & big hugs.

[MinDB]

aww, i'm sorry. my thoughts and prayers are with you and you family.
she shouldn't give up hope just yet. when i talked to my doctor, he told me that he and his wife had 2 miscarriages before they went on to have 3 healthy pregnancies in a row.