Confused..Help

EmilyRenee · #1 October 12th, 2007, 02:03 PM

Hi im emily. Im new to this so bear with me. I m/c on august 12. I got af on sep 17. I had some spotting on cd12,13, and 14. Ive heard and read that this could be a sign of ovulation. Ive been going crazy trying to decide when to take a test.

However I didn't show on a test last time until i was 3 weeks.

Does anyone know if that is true about the spotting or is it even possible that i ovulated before that and that was implatation spotting. Ive heard that you are very fertile after m/c or pregnancy. I generally don't belive everything i hear but I want to take a test so badly, but don't want to be disapointed if its bfn.

Help?

*Bobbie* · #2 October 12th, 2007, 04:54 PM

I think the *you are more fertile* is a bunch on nonsense.... but that's just me. I think people say that to make us feel better about our chances.

If you aren't sure when you Oed. I would wait till AF is due to test if an early BFN will bother you. I test waaaayyyyy too early. Like 3dpo

but BFN's don't upset me. I always think it's just too early.

So it's up to you.

Here is some

for you.

I hope you get a BPF this month!

Mum2three · #3 October 13th, 2007, 07:34 AM

Hello and welcome to the board. we are glad to have you!
i personally would wait to take a test...but its entirely up to you.
u could test now, and get a bfn or wait a few days and see if its a bfp!

Good luck

..Jessica.. · #4 October 14th, 2007, 05:19 PM

Welcome to the board! Let me see if I can help you out a little bit here..

Since you m/c on August 12th and got AF on September 17th, you could be pregnant if you know when you O'd and BD during that time. If you have 28 day cycles, you could test today and get your result. I'm testing tomorrow and my last AF was September 14th.

Good luck hun!!! And I'm so sorry for your loss!