Danica,
I am sorry you are going through this..and I wish we could all say what is normal....it would make things so much easier!
unfortunately, it takes longer for some women for their bodies to adjust to not being pregnant. My pg symptoms went away rather quickly when I m/c'd. and I KNOW this sounds CRAZY, but....putting a cabbage leaf in your bra will help dry out the milk....sounds nuts I know, but it works.....my friend's dr. told her to do that...and it really did dry it up.
Is the "pressure" you are feeling a possible uti maybe????
I really hope the best for you !!!
Dee