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October 20th, 2007, 09:38 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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So EVERY month my temp drops at 13dpo. It has never stayed up on that day..... I haven't tested for a couple days. I started spotting today and then it pretty much went away. If my temp stays up tomorrow, I am going to test again....
So about that snowballs chance is HE double hockey sticks........
I am thinking it's gonna be a BFN..... What do you think? Could I really get a BFP with a HSG (test where they inject dye into you and take an x-ray of your tubes) and a D&C and only BD once when it *counts*.....
Stay tuned for the next temp in the morning
Oh and some high temp vibes would be wonderful!
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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October 20th, 2007, 09:48 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Bobbie,
I saw that your temps are still up....that is really a good sign, but you know that!!
do you ever have mid cycle spotting?? It all sounds promising......very much so..... 
you KNOW I am keeping my fingers crossed for you! Heck I'll even walk around with my eyes crossed too if it helps you get a bfp !!!
hang in the chickie!!! & Good Luck !!!! AND LOTS OF High Temps Vibes !!!!!!!!!
love ya !
Dee
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October 20th, 2007, 09:53 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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OMG... I am LMAO cause Amanda walks around like that sometimes.... yeah she is strange!
UGH about the spotting. It could be one of three things....
Early AF.
Implantation spotting.
Left over from the D&C (it's been 10 days)
No I have never spotted before like this. I may need to buy a HPT tomorrow. I am actually out.... I know go figure!
Is it morning yet?
Love ya too!!!!!! I think I am gonna go roll in some of the dust from our October dust drive.........
<rolling>
<rolling>
<rolling>
heck I with inhale it!
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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October 20th, 2007, 09:58 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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ok, so I STALKED your chart AGAIN..( mine just bites)..and, yeah...get a test!!!!
you know, maybe the procedure was what your system needed to catch the sometimes elusive egg.....
you never know
good luck!!
I'll be waiting to see those temps !!
as for the dust, roll, inhale, eat & drink it !!!
gotta go for now.....lol.....  Mick is calling
talk to you tomorrow !!!!!!
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October 20th, 2007, 10:17 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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GOOD Night!!!!!!!!
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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October 20th, 2007, 10:55 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Good Luck tomorrow! Hope the test is a BFP for you! Wow how awesome would that be?
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October 20th, 2007, 11:02 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Uhh... the sky would open up and the heavens would fall......
Okay never mind!!!!!! LMAO... it would pretty much be a miracle if I saw two lines....but a girls gotta hope right? Now I am going to bed..... after I BD..... hey my initals are BD....hmmmmmm is that a sign?
(yeah I am drinking wine tonight...... forget everything I just typed!) See you all tomorrow
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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October 21st, 2007, 06:24 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Bobbie - the first time I pg it was one time and we were taking that month off so I have no idea when in my cycle it was. Miracles do happen. I hope this is yours! It sure would be a great story to tell.
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October 21st, 2007, 08:27 AM
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Well girls 97.8..... so I guess I am going to test later today if AF doesn't show before then. I am spotting again though
I'll keep you updated....
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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October 21st, 2007, 08:30 AM
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October 21st, 2007, 09:16 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Good luck Bobbie!!! I'm praying you get your  really soon!!!
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October 21st, 2007, 09:56 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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did you go out and buy a new stock of hpts today ??????
I hope so, cause with those temps, I know I'd be poas like crazy !
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October 21st, 2007, 10:19 AM
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Well.... now I have killer cramps. Looks like it is most likely AF.... so I guess I will spend the HPT money on a bottle of wine instead
Can I drop a house on her?
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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October 21st, 2007, 11:09 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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no af has to leave ya and u need to lines.
im sry hun i was really hopeing it was just IB
hugs keep us updated
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October 21st, 2007, 12:07 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Quote:
Well.... now I have killer cramps. Looks like it is most likely AF.... so I guess I will spend the HPT money on a bottle of wine instead
Can I drop a house on her?
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DRATS !!!!! well,hon, enjoy that wine, cause this may be your last cycle to drink for awhile  You do know our cycles will be the same again right??? I know she is probably getting ready to land in Chicago too.....
November is all ours!
love that image btw !!!
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October 21st, 2007, 12:22 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Okay <sigh> November it is.
I think I am going to mark today as light so my cycle will start today. Depends if it turns into a little more than spotting. I am so confused when I get to this point in my chart
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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October 21st, 2007, 12:34 PM
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October 21st, 2007, 09:06 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Okay I give up. I am still spotting. Like barely enough for a panty liner.
What gives?
Maybe I wasn't supposed to have sex this soon after a D&C? I wonder if that could have caused it? But then that wouldn't explain the backache and cramps.
I just wanted to say..... "I give up" LOL
Okay I feel better
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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October 22nd, 2007, 10:07 AM
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well bobbie if its still light then u should still have a shot at this mo. right. but heck when i was pg. w/clayton i bleed like there was no tomm. in the first mo. so nothing fases me. but i hope its actually ib cause ive heard that last for a few days and also if its lightter then it norm is then that could be a good sign u keep us updated.
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Angelina Marie 08-02-99, William Dewayne 02-08-01, Thomas Ray 07-30-02 and BabyBean 02-22-08 and BabyBean 03/02/2012
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October 22nd, 2007, 10:33 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Well... the witch showed.
I am so glad for that month to be over. The only piece of the *puzzle* left is the results from Dave's SA. If that is normal I am going to try Pre-Seed this month. Onto cycle 9 since the m/c.
9 is a good number
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Bobbie mom to : Jeremy (21) Amanda (17) Matthew (3) and Daniel (20 months) step-mom to: Stephany(21) and Krista (18)
step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)
On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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