ha ok I finally tried to put a fertility friend link on my signature. Does it work? You can see I missed a few temps here and there (not to mention when the thermometer broke!). If I go with how everyone else's charts look with the temp spike then I think I ovulated some time around the 19th or 20th. I swear I felt ovulation pains though on the 17th & 18th. Hopefully it was then b/c I couldn't get DH in the mood for anything on the 19th & 20th! We did manage to BD on the 21st though. I dunno, I'm thinking we totally missed our chance this month
edit: oh and my cycles are normally 26 days, not 20 days like it says on there. I don't know what in the world happened last month.
edit: i added other cycles and that made it back to 26 days. woohoo!