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dee68 · #1 November 2nd, 2007, 12:44 PM

I have seriously had it. I am so sick of holier than tho attitudes there.....
I am not saying eveyone has to agree on everything but geeeeez, why get soooooooooo nasty & disrespectful??
I feel like I am on the Debate Board! I am just SICK of it, I have been TRYING to keep that board friendly....but I am DONE.....Got more important things to worry about~

thanks for letting me get this out

Shaustin · #2 November 2nd, 2007, 01:01 PM

Awwww, I'm sorry Dee.

I actually happen to stop by that board a while ago today, and couldn't believe what I read in one of the posts. So incredibly RUDE and DISRESPECTFUL. I just don't understand why people can't state their opinions without judging others for theirs.

You don't need that stress right now anyways!!

dee68 · #3 November 2nd, 2007, 01:11 PM

It was probably the same post that made me realize it is just not worth the aggravation.
only a handful of ladies post, many are just afraid to because of being attacked.....we may see one or 2 new members, but they rarely return. It is a shame.......oh well, I tried!

greenchild · #4 November 2nd, 2007, 01:58 PM

I am sorry you had to go thru that! Pets are so much fun to talk about!
I used to belong to a rottweiler board, but it got to be like a clique, if you weren't part of the "popular group", all your posts got crapped on by those in the "group". So I left for about a year. I finally came back and saw that the board was much more positive, and I posted a re-introduction, and wouldn't you know within 10 minutes my nice friendly post was deleted. After that I stopped going there.

dee68 · #5 November 2nd, 2007, 02:13 PM

it is really crazy !!

Believe me I am an animal lover, big time, and am passionate about certain animal issues, BUT I do not feel I have the right to tell someone else they are right or wrong with the way the raise their animals...or their kids for that matter..IF it were a blatant abuse situation, that's different....its so frustrating....

Mum2three · #6 November 2nd, 2007, 03:01 PM

awww. Dee i dont blame ya...thats why i left there. i found there was TO MANY ppl with their noses in the air..i dont like that. and right now hun, u dont need to be stressed!! Im glad your leaving..more time with us

*Bobbie* · #7 November 2nd, 2007, 03:51 PM

Dee..... honestly you stuck it out much longer than I would have

You don't need any stress right now momma!

Danica · #8 November 2nd, 2007, 09:16 PM

Ah, don't worry about it. I am sure acting as a mediator rather than a moderator is trying on your patience! I saw the post today too, that girls posts were uncalled for. Makes you want to just cyber sock um

eta: I wanted to add that it is always one bad seed that spoils the bunch. Most of the girls over there seem very nice. Don't cha hate that!

Frangipani · #9 November 2nd, 2007, 09:20 PM

aww that's too bad. I haven't ever ventured over there-I pretty much stick to the TTC boards. Sorry it was nasty over there! Glad you are taking care of yourself though and not getting dragged down by it...

dee68 · #10 November 3rd, 2007, 05:00 AM

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Ah, don't worry about it. I am sure acting as a mediator rather than a moderator is trying on your patience! I saw the post today too, that girls posts were uncalled for. Makes you want to just cyber sock um

eta: I wanted to add that it is always one bad seed that spoils the bunch. Most of the girls over there seem very nice. Don't cha hate that![/b]

most if them are, the problem is, there are lurkers IMO for that room, that love to POUNCE on certain types of posts. It just drove me nuts. I'll still post there, but I just feel it will be easier not to have to worry about "troublemakers".....I hope

*Judy* · #11 November 3rd, 2007, 08:07 AM

I am sorry about that whole mess Dee. I know that your stress level will drop. It is ashame that some people don't know when enough is enough and pass judgement into others. There is a time and a place for all that muck and unfortunately some people don't know when it is appropriate. So Sorry you had to go thru all that!