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November 5th, 2007, 08:28 AM
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ok ok let me explain....

for the past 2 days, I have not really "felt" pregnant. I was starting to have myself convinced, that just like the last pregnancy, my body absorbed everything.....so yeah, I took out my last FRER.......um, the control line was so faint it was barely there....lol....but the test line...woooo hoooooooo....going STRONG.....

am I really a nutcase, or would you ladies be doing the same thing if you felt the way I did? honestly?
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November 5th, 2007, 08:34 AM
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Dee...


Yes I would have done the same thing. What's really funny is I JUST looked at your chart and my first though was WOW look at that temp and then I looked down to the detail part and thought.... I can't belive she hasn't POAS again! LMAO I guess we really do think alike

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November 5th, 2007, 08:39 AM
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lmao...scary huh ???????


I think I did breathe a little sigh of relief when I saw the test though..
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November 5th, 2007, 08:43 AM
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WHATTTTTTT???? Girl what are you smokin'? LMAO! I can not believe you did that...now you have to run out to wal mart and pick up more for the next...LMAO!!! YOu are a hoot, between testing when you are pregnant, and making poor Shannon dream about it I have reason to be trully afraid! What have I gotten myself into hanging here!!! You crack me up!
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November 5th, 2007, 09:04 AM
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Judy,

I know it is crazy ! But I had to see ...I was sooooooooo afraid that line would be lighter....I am worrying too much now...
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November 5th, 2007, 09:08 AM
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I think I'll be right there with you. I have a feeling this next pregnancy I will be a bit more paranoid. I really wish we could go back to being naive about pregnancy and didn't have that worry in the back of our minds, KWIM? But I think I'll be confirming with $store tests so I don't go broke My doctor said that with this next pregnancy since I had a m/c I could go in every couple of weeks to make sure everything is okay and I could go in a soon as I find out and won't have to wait till 8 weeks so that might help with the nerves too. I am glad to see you got that glaring positive line still!!!
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November 5th, 2007, 09:41 AM
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Danica,

I know exactly what you mean....
I wish it was like what our moms & grandmothers went through....
you bd whenever.....missed AF.....went to the dr. yep, you're pregnant, ate whatever you wanted & just waited til your water broke!
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November 5th, 2007, 10:17 AM
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I'd do the EXACT same thing Dee! So don't evennnn worry about being nuts! I think we'd allllllll test for a few weeks after we know for sure!
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November 5th, 2007, 10:19 AM
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Quote:
Danica,

I know exactly what you mean....
I wish it was like what our moms & grandmothers went through....
you bd whenever.....missed AF.....went to the dr. yep, you're pregnant, ate whatever you wanted & just waited til your water broke![/b]
Amen to that! Those worry free days are not our reality unfortunately. I don't blame you one bit on the poas thing. I know you've probably started searching for dopplers online...I know I have and I haven't even gotten my bfp yet! LOL
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November 5th, 2007, 10:54 AM
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About Dopplers......

I rented a doppler last time from babybeat. I am going to buy one next time when I hit 6-7 weeks. Even thought the worst happened with my doppler (I lost the baby's HB one day) it was sooo nice to have been able to hear my baby in there for the 4 weeks I did get to hear it. I heard it for the first time at 7 weeks. It was one of the best days of my life

I don't think the doppler is for most people. It really can be VERY frustrating when it takes more than a couple minutes to locate it. But for me.... I am stubborn and not easily discouraged so it was a awesome way to enjoy my pregnancy.

I can't wait to hear that sweet sound again someday
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November 5th, 2007, 11:36 AM
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I will be worried when I get my BFP too. I just am afraid I will worry to much with the next one and it will affect my health and the little ones as well. With my last pregnancy (which was my second miscarriage) I was on pins and needles. Everytime I wiped I EXPECTED to see blood and when it happened I was a mess, it was an extremely stressful month for us. I had just started to think everything was alright and wahmoo! It is hard, we want it to stick and are so afraid that it won't. I understand where you are coming from, I just wish that we didn't have to do it...that we could have that peace, but we never will and worrying only invites more stress and where does that lead? It is a vicious cycle we are in. We have the desire to be pregnant and once we get there we are scared to death to be there because we know what can happen. It really sucks...
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November 5th, 2007, 12:16 PM
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Judy,

I hear ya ! I am constantly checking tp now....~ugh~......although, I am not feeling over stressed..if that makes sense? yes I am worried, but I am very very calm these days...NOT normal for me at all.....lol
I do run to the bathroom every time I think I feel something, but it's just that lovely pregnancy wetness...lol....thank goodness!!!

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About Dopplers......

I rented a doppler last time from babybeat. I am going to buy one next time when I hit 6-7 weeks. Even thought the worst happened with my doppler (I lost the baby's HB one day) it was sooo nice to have been able to hear my baby in there for the 4 weeks I did get to hear it. I heard it for the first time at 7 weeks. It was one of the best days of my life

I don't think the doppler is for most people. It really can be VERY frustrating when it takes more than a couple minutes to locate it. But for me.... I am stubborn and not easily discouraged so it was a awesome way to enjoy my pregnancy.

I can't wait to hear that sweet sound again someday [/b]
you see Bobbie, I have no patience sometimes, and if I didnt do something just right, and couldnt hear the HB...I would freak....so I won't even mention this to Mick, because he will either get one, or figure out how to make one! LOL

and yes, you WILL hear it..........SOON I think !!!!
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