[ShannonMVT]

I had a dream last night that I got BFP.

Tested this morning.....BFN.



So much for being pregnant by Thanksgiving.

[*Bobbie*]

Shannon,


Even though I test WAY early.

10DPO is too early too. It can take up to 12DPO for the baby to implant and then a couple days after that for the HCG to show up. I am sure you know all that already though. Your temps still look great. Wait a couple days and test again. If it makes you feel better do a search on FF for charts that had a negative test before a positive test. It ALWAYS makes me feel better

[tparum]

it took my good frien to find out that she was pg until she was 18 dpo and ur not out tell the witch shows

[ShannonMVT]

I think my temps look good because of the progesterone.

I'm giving it until 14 dpo and if I still have a BFN and AF hasn't shown, I'm stopping the progesterone.

[..Jessica..]

I say it's still too early.

When I was pregnant in June, I tested at 11DPO (3 weeks, 4 days) and it was a week later, at 18DPO (4 weeks, 4 days) it was

Don't give up yet hun!!!! This is it for you!!!!!

[*Judy*]

Hey Shannon!
It can still happen! Don't give up! I am routing for you girl!

I ditto everyone else! Good luck Shannon!

[ShannonMVT]

Thanks for the support girls. I just really feel like this is not going to be it for me.

I really melted down today. I guess part of me felt like if I got pregnant again right away, it would make things at least sort of okay. That at least I could move on with my life and hopefullly get to have a baby. Right now I just feel like it is never going to be okay.

[MelissaT1973]

Your not out yet! And IF this isn't the month it will be soon!
Please keep your spirits up, it's hard to do but your well being is worth it.

[*Judy*]

I really melted down today. I guess part of me felt like if I got pregnant again right away, it would make things at least sort of okay. That at least I could move on with my life and hopefullly get to have a baby. Right now I just feel like it is never going to be okay.
[/quote]

Hey Shannon,
I know what you mean about making it right. That was my big thing with my first loss. If I get pregnant again it would be like getting it right. I kind of felt I HAD to get pregnant again so I could get it right. In my mind I knew I hadn't done anything wrong and it wasn't my fault, but in my heart I felt I needed to make things right. I just want you to know I think I understand what you are feeling. But remember, you are not out of this thing yet. We are here for you girl! MMMWWWWAAAAAHHHHHHHH!

[ShannonMVT]

Tested again, 12 dpo, still BFN. I'm almost definately out. And still feeling like crap because of the progesterone.

Last time I got my BFP on either 9dpo or 12 dpo (not sure when I oed).

[sharethissmile]

Hey Shannon I feel your pain. We were both in the April DDC and both had to leave . I miscarried way back at the beginning of August and I'm just now on CD11 of my first normal cycle. After my m/c I didn't get AF for over two months. In that time I gave up everything I was doing for ttc. Temping, opks, the whole frustrating mess of it. I was at my emotional breaking point and just needed some downtime to de-stress. I think it really helped me. I finally got my period induced with Prometrium and now I'm ttc again but besides a few mini-meltdowns I don't feel nearly the amount of stress I did earlier in the year. Maybe if this cycle (btw your temps look great) or the next few cycles don't pan out you could take a little break to relax. Good luck sweetie!