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November 21st, 2007, 06:32 PM
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Well, yeah I am miscarrying again. The cramping is pretty bad... and well the clots started. My temp also took a HUGE dive. The blood test said the HCG wasn't going up. Not a big suprise.

I am just thankful it was early this time and not at 14 weeks again. I am not sure how I will ever relax if I do ever get pregnant again.

I am not all that sad but more in pain than anything. Everyone at work was VERY supportive. I told my store manager and told him I may ask to leave early. He was so nice about it. Luckily I was okay to work all day. I just didn't know how bad the bleeding would be? It's still pretty light with just some small clots.

Thanks for all the prayers girls I appreciate it more than you all know.
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November 21st, 2007, 06:43 PM
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Oh noooooo honey!!! I'm SO sorry - words cannot express how sorry I am. I'm sending thoughts and BIG prayers your way. I don't know what to say except that I'm sorry. So very sorry.
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November 21st, 2007, 06:43 PM
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Oh Bobbie!!!!!

I'm SOOOOO sorry!!!!!!!!

I'm still praying for you and your family!!!!!

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November 21st, 2007, 06:57 PM
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Thanks girls... it's okay... I am not going to dwell on this one...just move on and try again

I learned one thing though.... testing early sucks

And this cramping bites! LOL I mixed a cranberry and vodka and am going to wrap presents
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November 21st, 2007, 07:18 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss.
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November 21st, 2007, 07:25 PM
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Oh no Bobbie i am so sorry. Sounds like you are handling it well, but don't be afraid to breakdown if you need to. We're all here for you. {Hugs}
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November 21st, 2007, 07:36 PM
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I agree with Emily Renee... Sounds like youre doing good.. being very strong.. but its okay to break down if you have to... or just break down to your DH...

im so sad for you... im sad for all of us right now.. who should be pregnant, or have a baby, and dont... The holidays suck sometimes.. and especially for you right now..

ill be thinking and praying for you... particularly tomorrow.

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November 21st, 2007, 08:04 PM
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I'm so sorry Bobbie! I will continue to pray for you & your family.
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November 21st, 2007, 08:29 PM
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Awwwww Bobbie I am so sorry. I'm glad that your trying to be strong with it all. Just remember that we are all here for you. You are in my thought and prayers.
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November 21st, 2007, 08:45 PM
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oh hun, I am so sorry!!!!!
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November 21st, 2007, 08:45 PM
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Oh no Bobbie! I am so, so very sorry. I hope that the bleeding stops soon. Your in my thoughts and prayers. We are here for you hun. (((HUGS)))
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November 21st, 2007, 09:49 PM
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o sweety im so sry i know there is nothing anyone can really say right but keep in mind girlie we all love ya and are hear for you. i didnt want to see this news at all its not fair. you and ur family are in my thoughts and prayers
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November 21st, 2007, 10:28 PM
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I am so SORRY Bobbie! I wish therewas something I could do. I will praying for you and your family. Take care and remember we are here if you need us!
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November 22nd, 2007, 12:36 AM
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Bobbie I am so very sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts and my prayers ((HUGS))
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November 22nd, 2007, 02:31 AM
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oh Bobbie, darn I am so sorry. I hate this for you!
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November 22nd, 2007, 05:23 AM
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I'm so sorry.
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November 22nd, 2007, 05:37 AM
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Bobbie, I cant believe this is happening to you! This is the las thing that i thought would happen. Girl im really sorry. You have my digits im home all day if u need to talk. im here for you no matter what
I just seen this post this morning, and im sitting here crying and bawling right now!
Loves ya girl!!
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November 22nd, 2007, 06:59 AM
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aww, i'm so sorry. you are in my thoughts and prayers. big
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November 22nd, 2007, 07:10 AM
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Oh Bobbie. I'm so sorry. I am thinking of you.
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November 22nd, 2007, 04:53 PM
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Bobbie~I feel just terrible, I am so sorry. You do sound strong, but nonetheless it's never easy. And it's OK to be sad, angry, and a whole mix bag of feelings.
My thoughts and prayers are with you hun.
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