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November 24th, 2007, 08:11 PM
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Should I...

temp?
OPK?

Or just wing it this month?

I am inclined to just wing it and hope for the best.

I think I need a breather month...but I know once I get to CD 20 or so I will be OBSESSED again. LMAO

So you girls take a vote and let me know okay?

I am in such a good mood lately I hope it lasts I kinda feel "on top of the world". I must be nuts. Everyone around me at work is Cranky and Tired. I guess I thrive under pressure and welcome it most of the time.... it keeps me focused

Man I got wayyy off topic. LOL. I think I am gonna BD tonight Shhh don't tell Dave it will be a suprise.
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November 24th, 2007, 09:40 PM
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I say wing it and just take things easy this month...Have fun Bding!
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November 24th, 2007, 11:37 PM
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It's always nice to be able to take a breather...it is usually when you least expect it that you end up pregnant!
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November 25th, 2007, 05:53 AM
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I would take a breather and forget about trying for a baby!! thats what i did, and look at me! im still in shock!! Take some time away from thinking of a baby, and who knows, u will have a BFP next month!! Like my mom says dont play with mother nature..lol..i got that spill just the other day. i was telling her all the stuff that we all use to try to have a baby. and she just looked at me, and said, dont play with mother nature. When its time its time. and soon everyone will get a BFP! she has never seen the crazy stuff we ladies do. Just go with the flow! have some fun with Dave and forget about the baby..and u will be less stressed about the whole situation, and u will get pregnant in NO time!!!
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November 25th, 2007, 06:17 AM
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wing it!
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November 25th, 2007, 07:09 AM
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I would definitely say just wing it! It's so easy to get way too obsessed when you're temping/charting, using OPKs, etc. GL and have fun BDing!
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November 25th, 2007, 07:09 AM
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Yep, I say just have fun. I would go with the, we're not not trying philosophy.
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November 25th, 2007, 07:46 AM
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Bobbie,
I too say wing it!! It's too easy to obsess over the little details. BTW, I was sorry to see your other post, but glad to find you in good spirits. I think your probably right that by CD 20 you will be obsessing again but at least until then you can just have fun. I sort of did that this month. I was having the slow rise thing going on with my chart and was getting frustrated with my thermometer so when we left on vacation I left it here. I decided if I was going to go on vacation I didn't need to be stressing about the small stuff. I temped long enough to be varily certain when I O'd and that was really all I needed. However, if I don't get my BFP this month that's what I'm going to do next month is wing it.
GL and I hope this month is your month,
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November 25th, 2007, 08:22 AM
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I say wing it too !
OR have sex 1 week before you O like I did


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November 25th, 2007, 05:09 PM
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Wing it andddddddddd do the deed like crazy!
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November 25th, 2007, 07:58 PM
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WING IT, WING IT, WING IT. That's my vote!!
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November 25th, 2007, 08:04 PM
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Okay... I am gonna wing it


I am still going to temp, but not put it into FF. My Dr. wants me temping and if I don't he may not take me as seriously. I don't want him thinking we are giving up... I want all the help from him I can get.


Sooooo BFP here I come...again One of these times it has to stick
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step-grandma to: Wesley (23 months)


On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss
If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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