[..Jessica..]

....he changes his mind more than the weather!

I might have known this whole "March 2008" thing wouldn't last very long.

Dwayne is a VERY stubborn person, but hey, I thought he'd at least stick to it this time! He just keeps putting it off more and more. I feel like he'll NEVER commit to wanting to try for another baby.

He says he wants certain things for our family, and I completely understand that, but HOW LONG am I going to have to wait for this to happen????

SOOO annoyed and pissed off right now!!! Not to mention, my mood isn't the greatest because of AF!

Might as well just take the blinkie out too!

MEN!!

[tparum]

dont take the blinkie out just yet but it sounds like u both need to sit dwn and have a heart to heart talk bout this hun

he might also be worried

[Danica]

Oh man. I am sorry he keeps changing his mind. I would leave the blinkie in and just see what develops. I hope that he'll stick to the March date. (((HUGS)))

[..Jessica..]

I tried talking to him before he left for work this morning, but that was no use. He says he's made up his mind. I'm not as mad as I was last night, just confused and hurt now. But, what can I do? It's not like he promised me or anything.

A lot of changes do have to happen before we bring a child into this world together, and maybe that is what he's thinking about. Hopefully we'll be able to talk tonight after dinner.

[*Judy*]

Man Jess...what a rotten day you have had. I am sure once he feels more secure everything will go according to plans. Men are just super irritable and when they get pressure (which he is under with his step dad and all) they get weird and inconsiderate. Right before my husband proposed I was ready to break up with him because he was being such a punk. I hope it turns out alright for you.

[Brittanie]

I'm sorry honey.

[Madison.N.Hailey'sMom]

I'm really sorry Jess. I hope you guys were able to talk once he got home from work. You should let him know how your feeling about the situation too and see about maybe seting a date in the middle. My DH is like that too sometimes. He sets him mind on something and thats that. Well if thats the way he wanted it to be then he picked the wrong lady to be married too lol. I went throught this about our wedding. He wanted to wait till he was done with school (Dec 06) then one time it was wait until he was 25 (mar. 06) So I said hows this we will get married after you turn 25 but before you finish school. So we picked June 06. You need to remind him that you guys are married now and these things pretain to both of you now. If you dont let your feelings known you may come to regret in down the road. Hope things work out for you guys.

[..Jessica..]

I've had SUCH a crappy day, it's not even funny!!!

I've REALLLLLLLLY thought about what Dwayne said, and he's right. We need certain things for our family to be comfortable AND happy, and with me not working full time -- that can't happen as quickly as I'd like it to. We need to get the basement finished, save money, look for an apartment, get furniture, ALL of that. And right now, it doesn't look like a baby will be thrown into the mix since we're barely DTD anyway! Did I mention we had sex ONCE last month??? Yep, ONCE!!

He's been working sooooo hard to get our savings going and he's doing an amazing job doing it, I guess I can't be that hard on him!!