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December 13th, 2007, 04:55 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Well i tested this morning... and it was most def a BFN.. not even a ghost line... i am 10 DPO today.. and with my other pregnancies i never tested before day 12.. but i always got a pretty definate BFP.. So i am not going to test again unless AF is a couple days late.. which with this being my first cycle.. who knows how late she could be.. But i really am not having any symptoms at all.. my bbs feel great! so i highly doubt im preggers anyways.. i was just hoping... i really would have loved to have had an august baby...my bday is Aug 25th..
Im okay though,... this is how it seems like it goes for me and my DH... we try for a few months before we get pregnant.. i just REALLY dont want a kid in December! christmas birthdays suck... and i REALLY wanted kids close in age... that is what i am the most bummed about... I guess if i dont get pregnant in the next couple of months then ill be really bummed... My 2 years apart is busted... and now the age that me and my little sister are apart is busted... blah... if we conceive next month the kiddos will be 2 1/2 years apart... which is okay.. but i REALLY dont want them any further apart than that... I know ppl plan their kids three years apart...but i just loved having sisters who were all close in age...
anyways.... I hope everyone has a great day! and maybe we'll see some more BFPs today...
I think this is Angies month!!!
~Em
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December 13th, 2007, 06:02 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh man  I am sorry. I was hoping that you were pregnant this month.
Funny you should say that about not wanting a December birthday for baby #2. I was the same way with Naden, we didn't dtd around that time because I was adament (sp?) about it. I was thinking this time though I am not going to be too picky because the age range thing is too important to me than the birth month. I have a lot of family members born in early December which is fine but I feel sorry for my cousin cause she was born on 12/25 and she hates that she gets Christmas / birthday stuff combined. I always make it a point to send her a Christmas card and a Birthday card.
I really hope you get pregnant this month!
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December 13th, 2007, 06:51 AM
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Just remember its not over till AF shows. This time it may just take a little longer. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you. And your temps are still looking pretty good.
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December 13th, 2007, 12:36 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I agree it's not over till AF shows up! Have hope girl! And even if it's not this month, it will be soon. KUP!
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December 13th, 2007, 01:51 PM
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Quote:
Just remember its not over till AF shows. This time it may just take a little longer. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you. And your temps are still looking pretty good. [/b]
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 Don't lose hope just yet!!!!
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December 13th, 2007, 06:04 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm keeping a everything crossed for a few more days for you Em!!!! I really hope it was just to soon!
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December 15th, 2007, 05:54 AM
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i Tested again this morning..even though ive not been getting any "vibes"...and it was a BFN again.. so i am not pregnant this month.. i know i would a gotten a faint line if i was by now...
im bummed too.. i had such a great feeling about this month when it started out...
So if my period comes on time.. which i think it will because my Temps are starting to drop.. it should be here monday or tuesday..... and that will mean that i O at the end of December... and that my next period should be arriving on Jan 14th... and my next EDD would be Sept something.. which id love to have a Sept baby.. that would be fantastic..
or an Oct or even Nov.. But still not a December baby.. ive decided that the month that we would get a Dec baby to AVOID getting pregnant.. I really want my Kids as close together as possible now... but i figure by the time we get to Dec, 1 month wont make much more of a difference.. She'll be almost 3 by then.. i wanted my kids 2 years apart...
But everyone i know who has December birthdays hate it... they always get combined gifts.. and then have nothing to look forward to the rest of the year... no birthday parties because everyone is busy with holiday stuff... yeh, it sucks....
So thats my plan.. BUT i really really really hope that i wont get to the December due date time.. I hope i get a September... *crossing fingers and praying!*
~Em
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December 15th, 2007, 06:34 AM
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Awwww hun im so sorry! i think bobbie needs to do a big dust drive again!!
I just wish that no one had to go through this. I hope it happens for you very soon!!!
Keep thinking positive!!
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December 15th, 2007, 06:54 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh man, I am sorry.  I'm hoping that you have a September baby so you don't even have to worry about the December birthday.
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December 15th, 2007, 07:02 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Awww....I'm sorry too sweetie! I actually avoided last month cuz of conflicting birthdays, but now we're ready to go, so we're hoping for a September baby too! I really, really hope you get your BFP in Jan!!!
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December 15th, 2007, 10:02 AM
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Ah, that SUCKS!!! I really thought you'd get your by now!!!
Here's to a September baby for ya!!! I hope next month is the month for you!!!
On a better note -- with your daughter being 3 when the baby comes, she can help out A LOT with her lil brother or sister. That's always good, right???
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December 15th, 2007, 12:38 PM
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I don't know, I've never gotten a bfp until 16 or 17 dpo, and faint ones at that, so...I'm still hoping for you! Good luck!!
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December 15th, 2007, 07:24 PM
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I've got a Dec. birthday and you're right, it's not the greatest. Still, I think I will be so thrilled just to have a baby, that I wouldn't mind a December baby. But hopefully both of us will get pregnant before then! Sept, Oct or Nov is just fine!
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